BelleVue wrote:

Hi everyone. It’s been a long time since I posted anything on here but as I feel I am coming to the end of my journey with my POI I thought I’d give an update.
 
I found PW probably at the right time in my life, just after my POI ended things between us.  I started using Lanie’s technique on him and he contacted me a few months after he had completely cut me off.  We stayed in contact for about 3 or more years (yes, I have been using the technique for a long time!) with him telling me how much he wanted to see me, knew I was right for him etc but during all that time we never actually saw each other again.  About a year ago my POI went quiet on me and I have since found out he is in a committed relationship.  This hurt a lot when I found out and I did ask him why he couldn’t have been honest with me rather than cut me off but obviously I received no reply!  
I am kind of at the point where him being in a relationship is no longer an issue for me, more the way he has behaved about it all but I realise now that is on his part and out of my control and I don’t allow it to play on my mind or control my feelings anymore.
 
I have deleted his number and everything of him on social media.  I’ve told him to delete my number but he hasn’t. I have no doubt I will hear from him one day as I still feel there is a connection between us and not necessarily a sexual one, could just be we are meant to be friends – who knows but time will tell!
 
So for me, PW, BWD etc did not work with my POI in the way I was originally wanting it to but I believe I am a better person for doing the techniques.  They introduced me to meditation which in turn has helped me in my career and day-to-day life so I can’t complain.  I have also used PW on others and it has had the desired effect so I know it works. It also gives me a positive boost if I am having a down day (which happens very rarely now) and makes me feel good about myself.
 
Really I just wanted to say thank you to Lanie for everything you have done and continue to do, your technique is something that will stay with me for a long time.  And thank you to everyone on this forum, I enjoy reading everyone’s progress and will continue to pop in and out of here once in a while to see how you are all doing

Happy to hear that you are in a much better place.

Sometime some common sense goes a long way with using these techniques as well. I have men wanting a relationship with me, that I never used these techniques on. Yet at the end of the day, even though they claim to want me, they don't lift a finger to prove that they are worthy of my time. Yet expect me to just take their words seriously. You MUST judge a man more by his actions and not by his words.