Lanie Stevens "Empowering Women" - http://laniestevens.com / Disturbing...but an accurate example

**Posted by Shawneegirl1980** 7/21/2016 6:45 pm

Jim Chien Beige wrote:
pixelpie wrote:
Jim Chien Beige wrote:

I laughed too.

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Lol😆
We should start a section of funny things... it's a good way to raise our vibration...
Oasiscalm!!! Help!!!

Oooooooh I think Thats an AWESOME idea....I'm always down for a good chuckle lol

**Posted by tigerlillie** 7/21/2016 10:00 pm

Shawneegirl1980 wrote:
tigerlillie wrote:
I will remember this. I have unintentially produced unwanted results because my thoughts were focused on what I feared would happen. Your post makes me feel more in control about my meditation and results. My guy is mine and I will have the a belief so strong that Sister Patterson will fear me.
Yassssss hunty!! That's what I want to hear!

Awe. Thanks, Shawneegirl!!!

**Posted by Kukasai** 7/22/2016 1:49 am

Shawneegirl1980 wrote:
Kukasai...well the other story just illustrates how, as i stated in the post before this one...we tend to be SOOOOO sure about negative stuff...although there may not be any evidence of anything negative...yet we dont do it the other way around. I can actually tell SEVERAL real life stories that illustrate this...but here is one more...

A friend of mine had recently found out her dad had another daughter and that she had a sister. She was thriled to find this out! I was actually happy for her. But there is one problem...you see...this friend of mine has a nasty habit of seeing the worst in people. She doesn't have to have ANY evidence that people are bad or shady...but she is SO sure that people are...that it always ends up being that way. After she talked to her sister...her words to me were, "She seems nice but when things seem to good to be true...they usually are...i hope i dont find out anything about her that 's bad"...when she said that...i said "Oh Lord..." to myself because I instantly knew what she was doing...she wasn't giving her a chance...she had already made up her mind that something was going to go wrong...and sure enough it did. Her sister had a wedding not long after they got in contact and wanted my friend to be in her wedding. Everything she feared would happen at the wedding (people looking at her crazy...not being welcoming, her sister showing her ugly side...etc)...it happened! And she almost seemed satisfied that she ended up being right! Not realizing that SHE was the cause of everything that went wrong because she DECIDED it was going to go wrong before she even got to know her sister. She always does this...and always wonders why she seems to get the worst with people...smh....And i have tried to talk to her about this several times...but she doesnt seem to get it. So it's to a point, I let her handle it in the way that she pleases...some people would rather be right than be happy...

Hi,

Thanks for that too. I think I have been guilty of that in the past, and yes it did turn out bad. That really makes you think.

Thanks again!

**Posted by Arry** 7/24/2016 3:45 am

What a wonderful (and scary!) story!
Yes we are creating our reality... We have to control our thoughts! I also remember the day before my guy broke up that I tell to a friend He was going to leave me :-/
And I also make distance to a friend who predicts always the break up of his friends because he is gelous!

**Posted by Shawneegirl1980** 7/24/2016 9:33 am

Arry wrote:
What a wonderful (and scary!) story!
Yes we are creating our reality... We have to control our thoughts! I also remember the day before my guy broke up that I tell to a friend He was going to leave me :-/
And I also make distance to a friend who predicts always the break up of his friends because he is gelous!

I think that is more common than ppl think. Have to stay away from ppl like that...

**Posted by Jim Chien Beige** 7/24/2016 11:22 am

pixelpie wrote:
Shawneegirl1980 wrote:
Arry wrote:
What a wonderful (and scary!) story!
Yes we are creating our reality... We have to control our thoughts! I also remember the day before my guy broke up that I tell to a friend He was going to leave me :-/
And I also make distance to a friend who predicts always the break up of his friends because he is gelous!
I think that is more common than ppl think. Have to stay away from ppl like that...
Yes it is and yes we do

Damn! Same thing happened to me.
Only positive thoughts from now on cause we are powerful!

**Posted by Shawneegirl1980** 7/24/2016 11:39 am

Hell yeah we are powerful...

**Posted by Arry** 7/24/2016 11:40 am

Another thing: I think we have not to talk about our desire with other people because they could only tell us to move on, or maybe they don't want us to be happy! :-/

**Posted by Jim Chien Beige** 7/24/2016 1:03 pm

Arry wrote:
Another thing: I think we have not to talk about our desire with other people because they could only tell us to move on, or maybe they don't want us to be happy! :-/

Exactly. We have to stop talking about our BFs.
My mom is very supportive and knows about LOA. I will talk with her and only her.

**Posted by Arry** 7/24/2016 2:40 pm

Jim Chien Beige wrote:
Arry wrote:
Another thing: I think we have not to talk about our desire with other people because they could only tell us to move on, or maybe they don't want us to be happy! :-/
Exactly. We have to stop talking about our BFs.
My mom is very supportive and knows about LOA. I will talk with her and only her.

Yes. My parents and my friends don't agree, but my grandmother is supportive to me because she had been through a break up with my grand farther for one year and she knows my pain and my hope.