Posted by Rubybell68  9/29/2016 6:56 pm | #1 |
I found this blog a few months back and just like this forum it has helped me tremendously. Many of her posts I believe relate to what a lot of us on this forum are going through. Below I have listed "does he miss me" is similar to what Lanie just covered in her FAQ ( thank you again, Lanie, for doing that!!). I thought I would share this website with all of you. I would LOVE to hear all of your thoughts and opinions on this site and maybe some of the topics and posts she has.
Like Lanie has said ALOT of us are going through the same thing. We tend to forget our self-worth and what we deserve as women. We are settling for bread crumbs when are deserve the FUCKING LOAF!! Self-love is so important. Instagram or a Facebook like is bullshit! Who cares! Why are we settling for that bullshit?
I use to be that girl. I use to be the girl that cared about that like or that text message. I use to be that validation seeking, daddy issues girl. NOT ANYMORE! I realized that the few guys I dated that broke my heart ALWAYS at some point came back into my life to win me back! It may have been years later, but they ALL CAME BACK!! MY LOVE WILL BE BACK!! BUT ON MY TERMS!!
Social Media has made it easy for people to do less work in relationships and just breeze by. E-tethering relationships have replaced actual courting because we have allowed it but yet we get upset with our loves because of their actions. They treat us the way we allow them to treat us.
Stop allowing the mind games. We are GROWN ASS WOMEN!! WE DESERVE BETTER!! It as starts with us loving ourselves first. Like Lanie said. Stop being a Victim. Put your big girl panties on and start creating the life you want.
https://postmalesyndrome.com/does-he-miss-me-does-he-regret-what-he-did/
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Posted by Mcleanie77 9/30/2016 1:08 am | #2 |
Rubybell68 wrote:
I found this blog a few months back and just like this forum it has helped me tremendously. Many of her posts I believe relate to what a lot of us on this forum are going through. Below I have listed "does he miss me" is similar to what Lanie just covered in her FAQ ( thank you again, Lanie, for doing that!!). I thought I would share this website with all of you. I would LOVE to hear all of your thoughts and opinions on this site and maybe some of the topics and posts she has.
Like Lanie has said ALOT of us are going through the same thing. We tend to forget our self-worth and what we deserve as women. We are settling for bread crumbs when are deserve the FUCKING LOAF!! Self-love is so important. Instagram or a Facebook like is bullshit! Who cares! Why are we settling for that bullshit?
I use to be that girl. I use to be the girl that cared about that like or that text message. I use to be that validation seeking, daddy issues girl. NOT ANYMORE! I realized that the few guys I dated that broke my heart ALWAYS at some point came back into my life to win me back! It may have been years later, but they ALL CAME BACK!! MY LOVE WILL BE BACK!! BUT ON MY TERMS!!
Social Media has made it easy for people to do less work in relationships and just breeze by. E-tethering relationships have replaced actual courting because we have allowed it but yet we get upset with our loves because of their actions. They treat us the way we allow them to treat us.
Stop allowing the mind games. We are GROWN ASS WOMEN!! WE DESERVE BETTER!! It as starts with us loving ourselves first. Like Lanie said. Stop being a Victim. Put your big girl panties on and start creating the life you want.
https://postmalesyndrome.com/does-he-miss-me-does-he-regret-what-he-did/
This is a great post thanks Rubybell68! 💞
