Ah! Finally, my cup of tea.

I've attracted multiple specific persons I was interested in as well as other desires like better health, more money, opportunities, etc. The common theme? I was detached from the outcome. I wasn't trying to force things to happen, I wasn't stressing myself out with techniques, I was living my life and living in a state of mind of appreciation, self-love, inner trust and power. I didn't even have a strong belief, some days I am sad, some days I am active, I just trust the core of myself all the same and let the emotions be. I just allowed myself to live my life instead of waiting for my life to begin again, instead of waiting for the things I want.

It's not the technique that matters - not really. The technique is just a passageway into the state of mind, the state of being, the feeling experience behind the desire. It's not the technique that manifests, it's the ultimate state of mind from which we attract like energy - as within, so without. Far too often, instead of feeling the love we want - we give in to fear and do technique after technique - stressing ourselves out and living in effort and desperation. I don't know about you, but my life will be different, I owe that to Myself, living in that way doesn't do anyone any favors. When we "give up" - we give up the struggle, we give up the effort, and we also give up the fear and desperation and frustrations that we carry.When we let go and move on, we make it easier on our brain to enter a more powerful and loving state of mind. And you can feel love and wholeness again - without need, without attachment, without fear. And before you know it - the person you wanted shows up again...or someone better. Don't try to make it happen, there is nothing to make happen, if you think that way then you'll always be trying to make things happen. Take a step back and realize that you already are that which you want to be.

 

Wow...haven't seen this thread in a while. And now it's blown up into a very heated drama fest and a scandal smh. Hell, gotta love it!

But I stopped by mainly for this...

Jag123 wrote:

Wow....just wow!    All that anger, you need to let it go.Avaelle is a great contributor to this board and I love her posts, she is always upbeat, positive and encouraging.  Just because your personal beliefs differ doesn't mean you need to be so nasty - you obviously have some hang ups and maybe some hidden guilt  over the karma issue otherwise you wouldn't respond with so much anger.  Maybe work on that?

Yes! Finally! Avaelle has a big heart, it's rare to find someone who is so sweet and encouraging and patient and gentle with everyone, mad respect to her

 

mugginess wrote:

I took up LOA coaching and I now have figured out LOA in a general sense and my life has changed for the better. Overall, I'm in such an amazing state and I'm happier than ever. I was meeting new men online, but none ever clicked with me. I told myself that it's ok and the right one will come when he's ready. I catch myself smiling a lot for no reason and I'm so confident in myself that I think LOA changed me for the better. I've done so many LOA experiments and it works. I've manifested more money, a better relationship with my mom, weight loss, new hobbies, chocolate, a gift from a guy I was briefly dating, free coffee, and a vacation to Thailand!

Tell me more about this. How did your understanding of LoA change? How did you apply it to manifest these things?
 

I remember years ago everyone on another forum was so upset because they were single on V-Day and I was so happy just watching The Godfather and having a pepperoni pizza and a cheeseburger for dinner. Best V-Day ever lol

 

Most of my female friends love candles and they'll talk about candles for hours and I'm just like...what? why? so weird lol

I guess they like it mostly for the scent, but I'm a big believer that if you want your place to smell good, then just fill it up with food lol