Questions & Answers » cutting the cord » 2/09/2017 10:57 am |
Cutting the Cord meditations have done wonders for me and my guy and I are in better contact with each other and when we do spend time together, it is great.
Success Stories » Keeps getting better ❤️ » 2/02/2017 5:38 pm |
I am truly happy for you and your success. I wish you many more blessings, love, light, and happiness. Thanks for sharing your story.
Share Links Here » The Intention Workbook. » 2/02/2017 5:34 pm |
I just finished reading Wayne Dyer's book, "The Power of Intention" and he quoted her numerous times throughout his book. I also recommend reading his book as well.
Success Stories » It is working. I am manifesting.... » 2/02/2017 5:33 pm |
I am truly grateful to be able to sit here and write a little success story. I am please to write that over the course of this past week, I have been able to manifest him into my life more. We starting hanging out on Saturday when he invited me over to his mother's house for his birthday dinner celebration and then asked me if I wanted to go out and play pool. To me, this was a big deal because we haven't been seen together out in public since October but we have hung out and spoken to each other on and off. Since Saturday, he has wanted to see and spend time with me nearly every day this week. I would like to mention that not only have I been doing my PW sessions but I have been practicing the Cord Cutting Meditation every day as well. I don't know if it is a coincidence, but since the cord cutting meditation, our times together have been more happy and more fun. I also just finished reading the book, "The Power of Intention" by Wayne Dyer, which I think has helped me tremendously on trying to maintain a positive outlook. He has also mentioned us hanging out and spending time together again so I am hopeful that things will continue to improve.
But........
there is still some slight resistance coming from his end. While he has been loving, affectionate, and kind towards me (acting like a boyfriend with kisses, hugs, cuddling, and 'I love yous'), he keeps continuing to tell me that he doesn't want a relationship right now or for a little while but he does have hopes that we might possibly be together again ONE DAY. As you may know, ONE DAY and/or SOME DAY, is not a day of the week. I am trying to not let this get to me and create negative thought patterns in my head, I am struggling a little bit to not want more than what he is telling me that he is currently wanting. My question would be to this forum, do I continue doing PW and visualizing him coming around and wanting a relationship with me again, or do I just live in the moment and enjoy what is currently happe
Questions & Answers » Cutting Cord Meditation » 1/29/2017 11:07 pm |
Does anyone feel any kind of tension or anxiety post cord/tie cutting meditations? I am trying to break the attachment and cord that I have between my guy and I due to there being a lot of negativity and I am ready to release him and be free.
General Discussion "For Women Only" » How Do You Break Down The Walls Of Resistance? » 1/28/2017 2:55 pm |
Good day,
So, an update to my situation, yes, I have manifesting him texting me and also seeing me but I feel a lot of resistance from him in my energy field. While I would love to see and spend time with him, he is busy making plans with his friends every day/night, going out and partying, and meeting new people (girls included). When I have brought up the topic of relationship or the future, he tells me that he doesn't think about the future and that he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now, that it isn't something that is even in his thought process. I work on doing PW every day if not every other day, sometimes multiple times a day. I feel kind of stuck with progression with him as I stated earlier, I feel like I am being met with resistance. Talk about being extremely stubborn! Does anyone have any advice on how to break down those walls of resistance and how to get through to someone that is extremely stubborn?
Manifesting Your Ex Back » Awesome for those needing motivation » 1/26/2017 8:11 pm |
I actually practiced the cutting the cord meditation last week and within a few hours I was hearing from him and then we ended up hanging out. He has taken back my invitation to go with him to his therapy session so no need to worry about that anymore. I do believe that I need to give him space again as I feel like he is controlling me and I am chasing him and that isn't a fun game to play.
emmiline wrote:
Hi wanderlusting, i am sorry that you are facing this confusing situation. Yes give him space for a bit and focus your meditations on healing for yourself.
You are still wondering and writing about what his responses and lack of responses mean, this translates to him still wielding power / control over your thought process. I would not go to therapy with him, he is selfish. He doesnt share pics of you on social media, didnt invite you to his birthday but wants to hold your hand when he is talking to a shrink.. no.
If you are going to meditate on him please do the cut the cord, its great for your mental well being. Let us know how you feel afterwards.
Manifesting Your Ex Back » Awesome for those needing motivation » 1/25/2017 6:57 pm |
I did end up backing out last week but it turned out that his session was actually cancelled. Many things have been different over the course of the past week. Thursday and Friday he went out of town and stayed with a friend and partied both of those nights. On Saturday, he ran into a girl that he was friends with back in high school and they hung out for a little while and even posted a photo of each other on social media. I couldn't help but feel hurt over this as we have hung out several times and I have yet to appear on his social media. I saw him this past Saturday and we had a great day as well as night but he had a birthday party to attend Sunday, where he ended up at another bar that night as well. Yesterday was his birthday and him and a group of his friends went out to a concert and he told me that he didn't want to include me and that I wasn't invited. I never sent him a happy birthday message yesterday but I did receive a message from him this morning at 4:30am telling me "thanks for the happy birthday" (that I didn't send). There is too much back and forth and hot and cold. I have been doing my manifestations, journaling, scripting, and my meditations but I feel like I am hitting a brick wall.
Indigo wrote:
wanderlusting wrote:
He is currently in therapy to work on some issues that he has. He did invite me to his therapy session a few days ago so I could give the therapist my side of the story, but I ended up backing out because we haven't even seen each other in over a week now. I know that he isn't where he wants to be in life right now and I know that a few months ago he was struggling with depression but he seems happier now and actually enjoying his life. He did me text me Sunday that he misses having fun with me but since Sunday, he hasn't reached out to me to hang out or spend time together. I am not going out of my way to contact him nor to try to see him. I am giving him space and time to try and remove the negative emotions and associations
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General Discussion "For Women Only" » Confusion Concerning PW Sessions » 1/19/2017 11:32 am |
Thank you, I will have to try this out.
Indigo wrote:
wanderlusting wrote:
I have read PW several times and I think I am still getting tied up in how to go about the visualization process. Some concerns I have are where to put your desires; hearing him saying them or hearing yourself say to him what you are wanting to happen or to hear. For example, let's say that your guy is anti-relationship and has commitment issues. Do you envision him saying that he wants a relationship again or do you envision yourself telling him that he wants a relationship again? Also, how can you make a guy overcome negative feelings towards you and having a relationship with you?
If I were in your situation I would leave all the relationship drama out of the visualization and just have him tell me
things like I love you, I miss you and I can't live without you. Then you can repeat those same things back to him
but in reverse - you love me, you miss me and you can't live without me. And tell him anything else you would
want him to know.
Manifesting Your Ex Back » Awesome for those needing motivation » 1/19/2017 10:22 am |
He is currently in therapy to work on some issues that he has. He did invite me to his therapy session a few days ago so I could give the therapist my side of the story, but I ended up backing out because we haven't even seen each other in over a week now. I know that he isn't where he wants to be in life right now and I know that a few months ago he was struggling with depression but he seems happier now and actually enjoying his life. He did me text me Sunday that he misses having fun with me but since Sunday, he hasn't reached out to me to hang out or spend time together. I am not going out of my way to contact him nor to try to see him. I am giving him space and time to try and remove the negative emotions and associations he has currently with me. I wasn't the easiest person to be in a relationship with and I struggled a lot with constant worrying, jealousy, insecurities, and because of those things, it created me being controlling and possessive, which of course, creates more problems and conflicts. I am too in therapy myself to work on those issues as well as self love. It is hard undoing many years of conditioning. I do have to say though, I wish I had gone to his therapy session because I think his therapist hearing what my guy refuses to tell him, will only help in getting the help that he needs. I am still meditating on him but more so on him treating me better and him wanting to talk to me and see me. I feel there are some things we need to sit down and discuss before we make a permanent decision to go opposite directions and give up completely. I know he has mentioned a couple of times here and there that with how I still am, he doesn't want to risk getting back into a relationship with me and getting the same shitty relationship we had before.
Indigo wrote:
wanderlusting wrote:
I do have to agree with you some what. He has been getting upset lately a lot more than usual at me because he is starting to see that I am moving forward and on with my life
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