Yes am also wondering if the technique works if you are just kinda daydreaming (eg: travelling in a bus or train and just do a quick PW or BWD session without getting into the alpha state entirely? Like just call their name 3 times, have them turn around and then proceed with a shorter session. Or would it not make enough of an impact?

Was reading this thread and found the advice from eleven so inspiring
I just want to ask, does the PW/BWD also work on someone I met at an event a few months ago and exchanged a few emails, but have not met in person since? He is not an ex. I would like to get to know him better and have him reach out to me. Can this technique also work in this case, or does it work on people who have been romantically involved as there is a stronger physical/emotional tie?

If this technique can be used, how can I tailor it to my situation? Do I imagine the string of light too?

Hi,

I am new to this forum and also very new to the PW and BWD techniques. In the book, Lanie says that you can use PW anywhere, anytime and on anyone. I tried it on my mom just now but it didn't work. We were having dinner at a restaurant and I told her that I will be sending her a mental message, so I closed my eyes and visualised her telling me that the food is delicious and I replied her in my mind that yes it is yummy. I then opened my eyes to ask her if she felt anything. She said she didn't feel anything nor did the thought of food come into her mind at all. Instead, while I was finishing with the visualising, she spoke about something totally different instead.

I don't know if I am doing the technique wrongly? Do I need to lie down and get into the alpha/relaxed/sleepy state for it to work? Lanie mentioned that this technique can be done without getting relaxed too, so am a little confused.

I am trying these PW and BWD techniques now on a guy I just met a couple of months ago. Nothing romantic yet and am trying to send him messages to get him to communicate with me, ask me out so that we can get to know each other better. I am a little disheartened as it didn't work on my mom, does it mean it didn't work on my guy too? I have heard nothing from him since. Kindly advise and would greatly apprecite some tips!