DC wrote:

bambi wrote:

Yes, I did it at night before going to sleep. I go to bed late so I know they both are sleep most nights especially during the weekday, not so much on the weekend. I also do it during the day/afternoon when I have a free time, but not always everyday at a certain time.

For the man from my past I did 95% PW. I did BWD a few times just to amp up things. When he sees me he can barely contain himself. He often calls me now saying sexual things but he is modest with it, because he said I have become his weakness, and he refuses to give his power all to me! But, in the bedroom he acts like an animal.

The current man I do both PW and BWD equally. And the passion is off the chain!

In the movie Cobb had a tense relationship with his father. Which sounds like your man had a tense relationship with his mother and ex.
But, they did not play on or use the tense relationship because they felt that positive emotion trumps negative emotion every time. They believe people yearn to be reconciled with a loved one. So, it is important to use positive emotions.
In your case, positive emotion is the part of loving you. Hearing him say to you that he loves when you mother him, it makes him feel secure ( which counteracts the negative of his acceptance/self-worth issues) 
Or he loves when you kiss him, hug him, or cook for him, whatever you have heard him say before in his own language, it will reach his subconscience faster.

So, focus on what he wants for his life? For his future? For a relationship?
Not focusing on anything negative, the past, or any issue you have had.
Incorporate what you want as well. The positive love energy. And then put in he misses you or he loves you or wants to marry you or whatever you want from there.
That is how I would do it.

Thank you!!! Great input. I will try that.

Did you do the techniques everyday? Because I don´t feel like doing them right now...

I love this one

Hi bambi, excellently written!

I loved this movie too and ive been looking to own a copy so i can watch it again (and again) 
- how Cobb  accessing his subconcious is depicted as him travelling down an elevator, Some books on meditation teach you to vusualise going down a number of floors in an elevator & in Lanies guided meditations we count back from 5..

I have used this technique in my visualization (PW) where my man is telling me that he is sure i am the one who fulfils his dreams. Right now its a different script im using, but after reading this I think ill shift my focus back to incorporating this instead.

Thank you for posting this as a separate thread, i think its my favourite now 

This was a great thread. The tip of using their language is also good. I find when I have deeper meditative state and do PW the word I hear come more from him I.e. The type of phrases he would use. And those sessions tend to feel the most powerful.

I'm going to go watch Inception over the weekend. Also I never did work out the ending.

Moderator, Is it possible to please move bambi's post into the success thread so it doesn't get lost amongst all the other threads.
Thank you xo