- Linda
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ThisIsMyUsername wrote:
You know, id love to get out of the house. It's so depressing here. But I don't have a car and my house is away from evetything.
Also there's a difference between a breakup and the girl you love telling you that there's absolutely, ABSOLUTELY no romantic feelings thete, no attraction, physical nor emotional. And that we'll NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER be in a relationship, EVER.
How am I supposed to look to faith when everything screams, "hopeless."?!
Oh my God you are taking her word literally.
My ex shout at me saying he didn't love me anymore and I should leave him alone and more hurtful things he done.
Stop please things can change all the time.
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TIMU should stop watching videos about attracting a person. Instead he should watch videos about people who fought cancer and other deadly diseases using the power of theit thoughts and now they are healthy and happy. That's empowerment.
Joe Dispenza's teachings are gold.
He is on his way. It is inevitable.
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You know, id love to get out of the house. It's so depressing here. But I don't have a car and my house is away from evetything.
Also there's a difference between a breakup and the girl you love telling you that there's absolutely, ABSOLUTELY no romantic feelings thete, no attraction, physical nor emotional. And that we'll NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER be in a relationship, EVER.
How am I supposed to look to faith when everything screams, "hopeless."?!Oh my God you are taking her word literally.
My ex shout at me saying he didn't love me anymore and I should leave him alone and more hurtful things he done.
Stop please things can change all the time.
It's one thing to witness her saying those things and another to see it in her eyes. To see it in the way she speaks to me, or the lack thereof. To see it in her actions. Her feelings have changed and thats not just going on what she's said.
Im mid 20s yes.
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Thread Starter- Aphrodite11
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ThisIsMyUsername,
I posted something in another post and I will post it here too.
In order to attract what you want, you have to IGNORE THE CURRENT REALITY and focus on what you want.
And in your case, currently focus only on yourself.
RISE
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You know, id love to get out of the house. It's so depressing here. But I don't have a car and my house is away from evetything.
Also there's a difference between a breakup and the girl you love telling you that there's absolutely, ABSOLUTELY no romantic feelings thete, no attraction, physical nor emotional. And that we'll NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER be in a relationship, EVER.
How am I supposed to look to faith when everything screams, "hopeless."?!
I'm sorry but we have ALL been there. Your breakup is not much different than the breakups the rest of us have been through. We've given you so many examples of "hopeless" situations being turned around, including my own. Yet we're all here, surviving, not going over the same old shit time and time again. If you can't find the faith then you need to step away from this completely for a while because guaranteed it will not work in your favour without it.
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I think we are wasting our own energy here. Like I said we are all here for you TIMU but you keep going round and round in circles. Please remember people are in similar situations (if not worse) than your own and are also trying to progress in their own journey.
Have you ever been through Cognitive Behavioural Therapy? You are obsessed and it would probably help greatly to reduce your anxieties.
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I think we are wasting our own energy here. Like I said we are all here for you TIMU but you keep going round and round in circles. Please remember people are in similar situations (if not worse) than your own and are also trying to progress in their own journey.
Have you ever been through Cognitive Behavioural Therapy? You are obsessed and it would probably help greatly to reduce your anxieties.
Worse? There's a limit. She wants nothing to do with me, hates me most likely, and she has completely, COMPLETELY moved on. She says she has NO ROMANTIC FEELINGS FOR ME AND NO ATTRACTION. PHYSICALLY OR EMOTIONALLY. AND THAT WE WILL NEVER EVER EVER BE TOGETHER. The worst part? SHE MEANS IT AND IT'S VERY OBVIOUS SHE MEANS ALL OF THAT!!!!!!!
How the hell can it get worse than that?!?! I'm not saying "hopeless" just to be a little bitch about it. I'm saying "hopeless because it's HOPELESS.
How can things EVER GET BETTER IF SHE MEANS ALL OF THAT?!?!!? WHY WOULD SHE EVER COME BACK AFTER NOT JUST SAYING, BUT ******MEANING***** ALL OF THAT?! WHY WOULD ANYONE COME BACK TO SOMEONE THEY'RE NOT ATTRACTED TO AT ALL?!?!?!?! WHY?!!?!?
How could it get any worse than this?!!?!?!?! Why would things change?!?!!? There is no logical reason as to why she'd EVER WANT TO GET BACK WITH ME IF SHE SAYS AND MEANS WHAT SHE'S SAID
I may have... I can't even remember anymore. I feel like I'm going insane. In the past I have tried to sleep to calm my worries and my frustrations, but sleeping just makes me wake up scared and anxious. Nothing soothes this! I can't do it. I can't take it, and this life is destroying me.
I'm sorry for being so over the edge here. I'm in a mood and I just cannot see ANY WORLD in which, after saying AND MEANING WHAT SHE'S SAID, that she'd ever come back. If you were in her shoes, why the hell would you ever come back to me after saying AND MEANING those things?! I feel like I'm just holding onto false hopel.
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I think we are wasting our own energy here. Like I said we are all here for you TIMU but you keep going round and round in circles. Please remember people are in similar situations (if not worse) than your own and are also trying to progress in their own journey.
Have you ever been through Cognitive Behavioural Therapy? You are obsessed and it would probably help greatly to reduce your anxieties.Worse? There's a limit. She wants nothing to do with me, hates me most likely, and she has completely, COMPLETELY moved on. She says she has NO ROMANTIC FEELINGS FOR ME AND NO ATTRACTION. PHYSICALLY OR EMOTIONALLY. AND THAT WE WILL NEVER EVER EVER BE TOGETHER. The worst part? SHE MEANS IT AND IT'S VERY OBVIOUS SHE MEANS ALL OF THAT!!!!!!!
How the hell can it get worse than that?!?! I'm not saying "hopeless" just to be a little bitch about it. I'm saying "hopeless because it's HOPELESS.
How can things EVER GET BETTER IF SHE MEANS ALL OF THAT?!?!!? WHY WOULD SHE EVER COME BACK AFTER NOT JUST SAYING, BUT ******MEANING***** ALL OF THAT?! WHY WOULD ANYONE COME BACK TO SOMEONE THEY'RE NOT ATTRACTED TO AT ALL?!?!?!?! WHY?!!?!?
How could it get any worse than this?!!?!?!?! Why would things change?!?!!? There is no logical reason as to why she'd EVER WANT TO GET BACK WITH ME IF SHE SAYS AND MEANS WHAT SHE'S SAID
I may have... I can't even remember anymore. I feel like I'm going insane. In the past I have tried to sleep to calm my worries and my frustrations, but sleeping just makes me wake up scared and anxious. Nothing soothes this! I can't do it. I can't take it, and this life is destroying me.
I'm sorry for being so over the edge here. I'm in a mood and I just cannot see ANY WORLD in which, after saying AND MEANING WHAT SHE'S SAID, that she'd ever come back. If you were in her shoes, why the hell would you ever come back to me after saying AND MEANING those things?! I feel like I'm just holding onto false hopel.
I am so sorry you feel this way. I am telling you that I have been through a lot.
I had a traumatic divorce and then on off relationship with my rebound guy which was a very painful again traumatic break up.
Now it took me years to get where I am.
You need to make a decision for yourself anf change this.
I mean change how you feel first. Nothing you can do to change the situation.
The only thing you can do as painful and harsh as it sound you have to move on right now.
I have and if I did move on after a year so can you.
Start now... Enough suffering get up and do something.
I really mean do something for yourself and most feel the pain.
Sorry to say but if you keep writing down a here how painful it is for you, you will focus more on it.
You have resources to help your self. Now go and do it
It will take time but you can do this. You are young even better to have the energy to not lose anymore of your time on her.
Keep telling to yourself shit I deserve better eventually you start to believe.
Besides she is not the only girl in the world.
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Then let go of hope. Release it and free yourself from her. Focus on moving on instead.
Yes, there are worse situations that people have been in with their exes. I'm sorry, but there is. I already told you my ex DID move on and end up with someone else but I still got him back. That's something you're not even experiencing yet so yes things could be worse for you. Peoples exes go on to get married and have kids with other people - that's also worse. But you won't learn. Keep up with the pity party like you have been doing for MONTHS and you will just stay there for even longer.
Okay, what do you want us to do? What do you actually want us to do?
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Em raised a very important question - what do you expect people here to do?
Everything has been said. You have been consoled and re-assured so many times.
What else can anyone do?
I agree with the suggestion you stop focusing/reading and listening to "get your ex back" things, and listen to stories where ppl turned their life around from much deeper sh&t,like terminal illness, loss of a child and such, because frankly your issue is not this girl. It runs way deeper, and way more back than this girl. I honestly and wholeheartedly believe that letting go of this "hope" is the best thing you can do fo yourself. This "hope" keeps you stuck in this mad loop.
And dont be so quick to assume you have had it the worst, that is very presumptious. Just because we havent shared every mean/loveless thing we heard from our loved ones doesnt mean we havent experienced it.
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