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HELP
Guys I posted my success story a few weeks ago.
That's a shit because me and that guy are over.
He became distant again and when I wanted to talk to him to ask him what is wrong, he just said that there's this other girl. We're done.
I feel so horrible. I can't cry, I can't shout. I feel like I'm paralysed. My heart hurts so much, but I can't let anything out of it...
Guys is there even a chance for me to make US happen again?
I really need your help because you guys are what I trust the most and you always give me courage...
- DC
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Re: HELP
This just means that there isn't enough energy built up yet. Doing PW/BWD is like slowly filling up a bucket with drops of water. There was obviously some effects but the bucket isn't quite full yet, that's all. Keep putting out more energy with the techniques, and don't fret. He's on his way. It's inevitable. Use this solely as an indicator.
- getitgirl
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Of course you have a chance!! Just ignore the other girl... she is there for YOUR benefit! See how you're reacting after finding out. He didn't even say he has a gf (right?)... even if he has a gf, there are so many stories of the guy breaking up. It's a lesson for you to fix what's going on inside yourself.
In the other thread you posted you said something like how you used to initiate all the conversations before... so you were so excited when he was talking to you more.
Now that he's distancing, it's triggering your fears all over again that he's not that interested.
It's the perfect time to continue your PW/BWD. And if you don't want him anymore, let it go. But if you still want him - you got to ask yourself how do you want reality to be... and ignore the rest.
I found out my ex got a new gf 1-2 months ago.... super crushed the first day, but I did tons of reading, and whenever I see them together in my mind, I either have him knock her out (LOL) or he uses a eraser to make her disappear...then he says "I just want getitgirl."
Which sounds ridiculous but it's better to do that than feel hurt/crushed every time you think of him liking someone else.
I know I'm a success story in the making... and you will be too. Stay strong girl.
- sag97
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Re: HELP
Thank you guys for your support, I cried do much when I read them.
What should I do? How should I work on myself? What do you guys suggest?
I started scripting at night, I write how my day with him went. I also did Ho'oponopono last night and I'm listening to Paul McKenna's Hypnosis for confidence. Also I'm trying to ignore the reality as much as possible but it's really hard
And I'll definitely keep doing PW/BWD on him!
Thank you once again. Bless you.
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Thread Starter- Linda
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Re: HELP
DC wrote:
This just means that there isn't enough energy built up yet. Doing PW/BWD is like slowly filling up a bucket with drops of water. There was obviously some effects but the bucket isn't quite full yet, that's all. Keep putting out more energy with the techniques, and don't fret. He's on his way. It's inevitable. Use this solely as an indicator.
Great answer!!
I know it's hard because you want results fast and want him to love you but you have to come to a place where you are ok.
You haven't evolve yet.
Take this time to distance yourself from him and work on yourself.
Do not accept anything less than you deserve.
The thecnique worked but was not enough energy to became permanent.
I read in a book that say the results start to materialise but then it will be permanent as long you care on with the thecnique.
Read this I thought was so interesting.
I have been doing this and it helped me.
- Linda
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One thing I would say. Don't rush the process.
All this stuff I have been doing work.
Be independent be confident. We need to be in a place were we don't really care if they come back.
You know it took me a long time to be where I am now and all the stuff I am doing it's working.
I love do the thecnique because I feel how much he loves me.
I am no in any rush for him to come back as long he is a change man and for this it takes time.
I thought this morning, it's possible he start to change his behave as long I persist with the thecnique eventually his thoughts will mix with my thoughts and it will materialise and I know for sure will be permanent because this thecnique will be a forever thing for me.
So does not matter how long it take I will marry that old man and this is what matters, it may take time I work on my self and connect to him which feels amazing.
Come yourself down, meditate to take the negative thoughts away and work on yourself. Slowly you start to feel better.
The more you do the thecnique and work on yourself the more confident you became and this is the confidence that will make him stay.
He is attract to you, so is not that hard. And besides its only another girl which he hadent dated I would thought.
It's nothing to worry about.
Last edited by Linda (9/26/2016 3:38 am)
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