DC wrote:

Welcome!!! The contact doesn't matter. I think, just be cautious that you reciprocate and not initiate at this stage. Work on being happy, and following other dreams, spending time with family and friends, taking care of your mind and body, doing things that you enjoy. You are already doing well with him, just use the techniques and have fun.

Thank you for replying DC! Can you explain a bit more about being cautious that I reciprocate and not initiate? 

DC wrote:

If he's inviting you out, go and meet him. If he calls you, talk to him, but don't be the one trying to inch things forward with your actions/words. Do that energetically with PW and BWD, but let him take the lead. Let him chase you because you have a life, and you are a high value woman.

Okay that makes sense! So, I guess that also applies to texting? That is what I'd like to do, but I just worry that if I don't show that I want to text him and talk to him that he will be turned off . . . 

eleven wrote:

Hi everyone! 

I just created an account for this forum today and I read through PW last night and started the visualizations, although I have known about law of attraction for many years now. My guy and I have been apart for a year now and we we weren't talking for the last 6 months. However, he contacted me at the beginning of this week because he found out that my dog passed away. He told me he was sorry to hear that and we spoke for a while about my dog and then I went on to ask him what he has been up to and he told me he was thinking maybe we can catch up over dinner sometime soon. I was pleasantly surprised to hear this. He hasn't made plans for dinner yet, but we have been talking daily since then. Our conversations have been light, but still fun. The only thing is . . . I sometimes feel really stressed and have a hard time staying in the moment and just enjoying our texts. I felt really good doing the PW visualization last night and this morning, but I am wondering how this will work with us being in contact? It seems like most of the women doing the technique are doing it on guys that they are not in contact with. Any advice / insight?

Eleven

http://www.eharmony.com/dating-advice/dating-tips-women/how-to-stop-being-so-clingy/#.V-jZUPR4XCS

eleven wrote:

DC wrote:

He's not going to be turned off. When you are with him, vibrate high. Be light and fun. Do the energy work and trust yourself. If you go chasing after him, or drop your plans when he calls, would that make you seem more attractive? No! Lanie has a third book too, and I think it might help soothe some of your worries. It's a worthwhile read.

Which book is that? I have read PW and just finished BWD
 

It's called "Pussy Power". It's available on kindle through Amazon like the others.