Luckylele wrote:

I disagree with EM ....... Keep your desire to be with Somone who will treat you with respect and love you unconditionally. He is not the only man out there. I am assuming you are young. But don't put all your eggs in one basket. Let a man pursue you and love you! Keep affirming you will find love and God will send you the man of your desire!

He's definitely not the only man out there and that's why I suggested being open to the possibility of being with someone else But unfortunately it's very hard to to switch off the love for somebody.

Last edited by Em (8/01/2016 11:45 am)

Oasiscalm wrote:

When I was attracting my guy back I went out on dates and even had a brief relationship. Had my guy seen me with any of those guys he would have thought I was totally over him, but I would have swapped them for him in a heartbeat.

Dating and going out with other people doesn't mean anything. You aren't inside his head reading his thoughts, so don't assume to know how he feels.

Yes it may hurt to hear that he is dating other people but reframe what that means to you. It should simple mean that he needs a distraction, that any woman he is with will only reinforce within him that he wants only you.

Don't over dramatise events, he hasn't broken your heart. It's not all over. He doesn't no longer love you. Move away from these thoughts because right now they have the power to overwhelm you and block you from manifesting what you want.

Clean up your energy. Close your eyes to current reality and live in the end. Yes there will be days which don't feel good but learn to let those periods go quickly. Train yourself to talk away negative thoughts and getting to a better feeling place.

Darling I blocked him completely. Whatsapp, phone, sms and email. Yesterday he was very rude and he wanted to talk with me, but I know him, he was very angry and he can be very hurtful. I sent him a message asking for the money the money he owes me and after that, I blocked him.
I'm trying to visualize my end result. Yesterday I used PW, but I didn't have enough energy. At night Ho'oponopono.
I feel like I'm drained.
Do you have a link to your story?
Right now I can use a beautiful success story because I don't want to feel like this is a hopeless situation.

ThisIsMyUsername wrote:

I just want to bump this, to give motivation to people who are struggling (like me :0) )

She got her man back!

🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

MadMoiselle87 wrote:

Woah thanks for the story that's just crazy so this is a normal thing that they came back have daily contact and then just out of nowhere they go distant again? Weird ... guess this is really this echo kind of thing ... this saves my day ... wow Jim your success story is amazing ... most of the stories are like 'he came back and everything was fine' but your story is awesome! Respect that you didn't lose your hope after that ... I'm struggling right now a bit because we're in NC again right now ... it's hard but I try to keep my faith. I'm so happy for you though!!

And let me tell you something... I deactivated my Facebook but one of my best friends is friends with my man. When I told her that we got back together she told me: I thought he had another girlfriend and sent me a picture. I'm going to ask my bf about that woman, but in a very nice way...

MadMoiselle87 wrote:

Jim Chien Beige wrote:

MadMoiselle87 wrote:

Woah thanks for the story that's just crazy so this is a normal thing that they came back have daily contact and then just out of nowhere they go distant again? Weird ... guess this is really this echo kind of thing ... this saves my day ... wow Jim your success story is amazing ... most of the stories are like 'he came back and everything was fine' but your story is awesome! Respect that you didn't lose your hope after that ... I'm struggling right now a bit because we're in NC again right now ... it's hard but I try to keep my faith. I'm so happy for you though!!

And let me tell you something... I deactivated my Facebook but one of my best friends is friends with my man. When I told her that we got back together she told me: I thought he had another girlfriend and sent me a picture. I'm going to ask my bf about that woman, but in a very nice way...

Are you kidding me?? So really a relationship status with another girl on his profile? :O

Not that. Just a photo with a woman. I don't know what else he posted and I don't really want to know...