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I want to post my success story cause I know how encouraging could be to read them.
This journey started 4 months ago. I met my boyfriend in October 2015 (on a Saturday). He is from Spain and he moved to Mexico. I met him 13 days after he arrived and I knew since the beginning that he was the one. We are both aries, our initials are JM, we like the same things, etc. I have to tell you that he is very handsome (to Mexican standards LOL) and I´m good looking too. Before I met him, my confidence and self-esteem were at the top, I used to go to the gym 6 days a weeks and my body looked fabulous. Basically I was feeling very good and he fell in love with me instantly.
He was constantly calling me and wanting to see me but I had a wedding in another state so he had to wait more than a week to see me again.
We saw each other again and since that day, we became inseparable. He slept at my place at least 4 days a week, he introduced me to his friends, we spent Christmas together and everything was great. BUT… Spanish people are tough, you know, their accent, it´s like they are angry all the time. I knew that cause I lived in Spain for almost 2 years, and I knew that they are not very emotional, I mean, they can´t show their emotions and feelings. He told me that he loved me, but nothing else, so I started to imagine things, like he was seeing somebody else, even though I knew his whereabouts all the time. My mind went CRAZY and my self-esteem and self-confidence disappeared and I began to feel anxious and unhappy all the time to the point that I stopped sleeping. And you know how thoughts create reality, so I created the breakup. I became a jealous person and I was constantly checking his Facebook. So one day, he went to work, I went to the gym. I checked Facebook and I saw that he added a very slutty looking girl, and I went crazy. I have to confess that I came home and I opened a bottle of wine… And then I texted him accusing him of being unfaithful, etc, etc.
He snapped cause it wasn’t the first time and sent me a text saying that he didn’t want to be with me or anyone else. At that time he was living with me, so he told me: I´m going to pick up my stuff next Sunday.
That Sunday I begged and cried. He was pissed and told me that we could be friends.
The next week he contacted me. Actually, he contacted me all the time about stuff that we had to solve (I knew his messages were excuses) but my world collapsed. I desperately began to find a way to have him back. In the beginning I read everything about getting your ex back and I thought those tactics were silly and immature, and then I remembered the LOA. I read everything you could imagine, forums, blogs, I listened to audios, etc. And I decided that I was going to do everything to have him back.
My first manifestation was a call from my mother in law who lives in Spain. That gave me confidence. Also I started to meditate 3 times daily to soothe myself and doing Lanie´s techniques. I kept my mind occupied. While I was home, I listened to LOA videos, audiobooks, etc. I stopped watching TV and also I read many books about LOA. I found Neville Goddard. Whenever I felt desperate, I closed my eyes and I thought about the image of my end result and with that image I went to sleep everyday.
I saw him 4 times in that time, but nothing good happened, on the contrary.
When I blocked him completely, I met Cherie and McLeanie and we began talking everyday via whatsapp. Those girls saved my life!!! And I started to feel good almost all of the time.
I decided to take action, so I sent him a letter apologizing and I also called my mother in law to tell her that I was still in love with him.
The letter arrived and he texted me wanting to talk, and the rest is history. In one week my manifestation unfolded and now he´s living with me, we are starting a business together, and planning the future.
We have to solve some things, but now I know that I have the Universe holding my hand, and many wonderful people in this forum.
Hope this story is useful. Winners don´t quit and if the man is good for you, fight for them. But never ever lose your dignity for a man.
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I love your story soooo much! But what I would like to know is yesterday I saw your old 'I give up' post after he became distant again ... I'm in the same situation right now and don't know what to do... guess it's just the echo of the past blah blah but this doesn't make it really easier lol... how did you get through this confusion and what did you do that he stopped this strange behavior?
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This is truly inspiring, all doubters need to read this again and again.
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MadMoiselle87 wrote:
I love your story soooo much! But what I would like to know is yesterday I saw your old 'I give up' post after he became distant again ... I'm in the same situation right now and don't know what to do... guess it's just the echo of the past blah blah but this doesn't make it really easier lol... how did you get through this confusion and what did you do that he stopped this strange behavior?
I was in a better place when that happened, I wasn't so desperate and anxious like in the previous weeks. But it was a major setback cause he was very very very angry. He was blocked from whatsapp for 10 days. I sent the letter. Then I decided to call one of his friends cause he owed me money and I told him a lie about moving to another country 😅
The next day I got a text from my bf.
What did I do during those weeks? I learnt to control my thoughts. I discovered the Silva Method and I kept reading about the power of the subconscious mind. And of course, my girls Cheriesymone and Mcleanie were always there for me.
Basically I began to be happy and in control again.
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eleven wrote:
What is the Silva Method, Jim??
It's a meditation to be in alpha state easily. Do a youtube search. It's really great.
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I followed all your posts since day 1 so to see you get your love back is so truly inspiring!! Could not have happened to a better person. It goes to show that IF YOU DO THE WORK IT WILL WORK!!!!
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She was totally committed, she put in the work. I never seen anyone so focused. She eliminated doubt and worry and became, composed, replacing doubt with belief
Good Job Jim, her soul is so beautiful. she deserves everything and the best of all
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Cheriesymone wrote:
She was totally committed, she put in the work. I never seen anyone so focused. She eliminated doubt and worry and became, composed, replacing doubt with belief
Good Job Jim, her soul is so beautiful. she deserves everything and the best of all
Oh Boy .. wish I could replace the doubt so easily a well ... guess I have to do more meditation again.
Atm it's like I'm trying to be focused but at the same time there's a feeling of sadness and doubt in me that I can't get rid off :/
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pixelpie wrote:
MadMoiselle87 wrote:
Cheriesymone wrote:
She was totally committed, she put in the work. I never seen anyone so focused. She eliminated doubt and worry and became, composed, replacing doubt with belief
Good Job Jim, her soul is so beautiful. she deserves everything and the best of allOh Boy .. wish I could replace the doubt so easily a well ... guess I have to do more meditation again.
Atm it's like I'm trying to be focused but at the same time there's a feeling of sadness and doubt in me that I can't get rid off :/Have you read all of Jims post? It wasn't an easy journey. Jim almost gave up on it at different points(that's where the commitment to you goal part comes in. What are you willing to do mentally to achieve your desire? (That what Lanie and other LOA teachers are trying to show you. That everything starts mentally. That it must be real in your mind to become real in the physical world ). But every time Jim got to such a point. Jim would regourp(take a beack)and come back to it later again and again. Until success was the only thing that could happen. Because by that point it was successfully imprinted( the new story) on the mind enough that it was pushed into the physical reality.
So this is not any easy path. Only because we are all retraining our minds. But once you get it things will flow easily and we all have a multitude of things at our disposal to achieve our goals. That includes you too ☺
So you think if I won't give up I'll eventually succeed no matter what?
I've read the 'what if I told you' thread from OC and this raised my mood guess I'll try it with this way of thinking