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The concept of soulmates and afraid to let go
Hi girls!
Since Lanie (and all the other LOA teachers) always emphasizes how important letting go is to fulfill your desires, and that we should release our wish and go about our day, even dating other men etc. I started just doing that. I joined an online dating website, I already met some wonderful and promising men there...and I'm trying to accept the idea, that maybe my target is not my soulmate, maybe there is someone even better out there for me...so I started reading about "how to attract your soulmate". I found a lovely book by Kathryn Alice. There is this one exercise where you let go of any negative believes about yourself, relationships and dating in general. But you should also let go of any past loves and crushes to build a space in your heart where your true love would then move in...and here's the catch, I really don't want to make that exercise, at least mit the part where I would release my target. I know letting go means letting go all negativity, anger etc and giving your wish to universe and don't worry any more... but somehow I feel, if I let my target go, that means I loose him, that I give up on the idea that we could be perfect for each other...can anyone understand this? Sounds a bit weird I know...
But what about you girls, do you believe in the concept of soulmates, do you groove that there is only ONE for us? Love to hear your opinion....
- Linda
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Re: The concept of soulmates and afraid to let go
kschmeck wrote:
Hi girls!
Since Lanie (and all the other LOA teachers) always emphasizes how important letting go is to fulfill your desires, and that we should release our wish and go about our day, even dating other men etc. I started just doing that. I joined an online dating website, I already met some wonderful and promising men there...and I'm trying to accept the idea, that maybe my target is not my soulmate, maybe there is someone even better out there for me...so I started reading about "how to attract your soulmate". I found a lovely book by Kathryn Alice. There is this one exercise where you let go of any negative believes about yourself, relationships and dating in general. But you should also let go of any past loves and crushes to build a space in your heart where your true love would then move in...and here's the catch, I really don't want to make that exercise, at least mit the part where I would release my target. I know letting go means letting go all negativity, anger etc and giving your wish to universe and don't worry any more... but somehow I feel, if I let my target go, that means I loose him, that I give up on the idea that we could be perfect for each other...can anyone understand this? Sounds a bit weird I know...
But what about you girls, do you believe in the concept of soulmates, do you groove that there is only ONE for us? Love to hear your opinion....
I don't know if I am right but for what I understand you don't have to give up on your ex.
You can carry on doing your thecnique with your ex if you enjoy doing it and go about in you day relaxing that even if your ex not show up as your soul mate someone better will.
I would do the thecnique and Just relax.
I don't think we have to analyse to much the process.
This is about feel good and be happy which you seems to be.
Don't need to fear anything. Do the thecnique if you wish from the book and still use Lanie' s thecnique.
I thinking both if make you feel good go hand in had.
I complete believe in soulmates and I believe my ex is my twin flame.
The connection it's very powerful we have, it's like he can't hide anything from me.
Maybe your ex could be your soulmates you never know.
Let go of this fear of lose him, you have lost him already anyway.
Xx
Last edited by Linda (9/28/2016 4:58 am)
- emmiline
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Re: The concept of soulmates and afraid to let go
Hi Kschmeck,
Interesting question. I used to seek psychic counsel (dont anymore), so back then i believed in this concept of soulmates and twin flames. i think mostly because the terms were introduced to me by psychics and also i really wanted to understand why i have this strong connection to my target. Ever since we met it was like we were twins, we just 'knew' that there was a familiarity with the other we couldnt explain and have never shared with another person.
But after being told by numerous psychics that we are soulmates / twin flames and then not seeing any of their predictions come to fruition about when we would come together as a couple, i started to doubt this.
Then Lanie invited me here and i got serious about LOA with the help of her books and the family here.
I dont care for psychics these days. i think we create soul ties with anyone we want to, and we can break them too. The future is not set in stone, we create it - we are not victims of fate.
Just my two cents 
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