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MadMoiselle87 wrote:
pixelpie wrote:
Have you read all of Jims post? It wasn't an easy journey. Jim almost gave up on it at different points(that's where the commitment to you goal part comes in. What are you willing to do mentally to achieve your desire? (That what Lanie and other LOA teachers are trying to show you. That everything starts mentally. That it must be real in your mind to become real in the physical world ). But every time Jim got to such a point. Jim would regourp(take a beack)and come back to it later again and again. Until success was the only thing that could happen. Because by that point it was successfully imprinted( the new story) on the mind enough that it was pushed into the physical reality.
So this is not any easy path. Only because we are all retraining our minds. But once you get it things will flow easily and we all have a multitude of things at our disposal to achieve our goals. That includes you too ☺So you think if I won't give up I'll eventually succeed no matter what?
I've read the 'what if I told you' thread from OC and this raised my mood guess I'll try it with this way of thinkingYes I do☺
Thanks pixel pie you safed my day ☺️
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She was totally committed, she put in the work. I never seen anyone so focused. She eliminated doubt and worry and became, composed, replacing doubt with belief
Good Job Jim, her soul is so beautiful. she deserves everything and the best of allOh Boy .. wish I could replace the doubt so easily a well ... guess I have to do more meditation again.
Atm it's like I'm trying to be focused but at the same time there's a feeling of sadness and doubt in me that I can't get rid off :/
It wasn't easy. Actually is the most difficult thing I've done in my life. I had to deal with negative thoughts during my waken hours. It was a constant battle. But my mind is my servant, not the other way around. I also had to deal with the fact that everything reminded me of him: my office, my house, the supermarket, my clothes. Everything. You have to work on your thoughts all the time. I told you, I didn't want to think, so I was constantly reading and listening to audios.
It's hard, yes, it's possible, yes.
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So you think it's the best thing just to think of him in 'the magic time', where you're doing PW/BWD and whatever and the rest of the day just try to be entertained?
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Oh and some thing I wanted to ask you... I don't know which problems you had in your relationships... but for me I was really clingy and jealous :/ Do you really think he could forget all about that? I would love to prove him that I changed but how could I do that without being in contact lol
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So you think it's the best thing just to think of him in 'the magic time', where you're doing PW/BWD and whatever and the rest of the day just try to be entertained?
You can use the rest of the day to raise your confidence about the LOA and the power of your mind, by reading. That will help you fight doubt and negativity.
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I am feeling so positive today. I KNOW my ex is coming back. Ahem. My girlfriend*, sorry.
Jim, i am so freaking happy for you! I cant say it enough!! Things must have been so hard for you! But I'm so freaking happy for you. Like genuinely happy! )
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Oh and some thing I wanted to ask you... I don't know which problems you had in your relationships... but for me I was really clingy and jealous :/ Do you really think he could forget all about that? I would love to prove him that I changed but how could I do that without being in contact lol
All of my exes were very affectionate. You know? They were always telling me how pretty, smart, fun and lovely I was. They were always hugging and kissing me, and my man is not that kind of man. He's tough, but he has other ways to show his love, like texting and calling all the time, I knew where he was all the time, but literally all the time, he never said no to something I wanted to do (like rescuing a stray dog 😊). But I couldn't see that. I was only focused on what I didn't have and became insecure. Also, I am divorced and my ex left me without saying a word. I thought that that experience was in the past but no. So I was worried all the time about abandonment. Finally, I manifested my fears. He didn't cheat, but he left.
Also Facebook is a relationship killer if you have insecurities. My man is very handsome and he got many comments from women saying: handsomeeee 😍😙. That didn't help me at all.
And we couldn't talk about that because I was scared that he would leave me. Hahahahaha. And that's exactly what happened.
I'm telling you: we have to learn to communicate if we want a future together, which we are planning. And that will take time and effort, but the universe is covering my back.
Hope this helps.
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Cheriesymone wrote:
She was totally committed, she put in the work. I never seen anyone so focused. She eliminated doubt and worry and became, composed, replacing doubt with belief
Good Job Jim, her soul is so beautiful. she deserves everything and the best of all
Thank you my love for everything.
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pixelpie wrote:
MadMoiselle87 wrote:
Cheriesymone wrote:
She was totally committed, she put in the work. I never seen anyone so focused. She eliminated doubt and worry and became, composed, replacing doubt with belief
Good Job Jim, her soul is so beautiful. she deserves everything and the best of allOh Boy .. wish I could replace the doubt so easily a well ... guess I have to do more meditation again.
Atm it's like I'm trying to be focused but at the same time there's a feeling of sadness and doubt in me that I can't get rid off :/Have you read all of Jims post? It wasn't an easy journey. Jim almost gave up on it at different points(that's where the commitment to you goal part comes in. What are you willing to do mentally to achieve your desire? (That what Lanie and other LOA teachers are trying to show you. That everything starts mentally. That it must be real in your mind to become real in the physical world ). But every time Jim got to such a point. Jim would regourp(take a beack)and come back to it later again and again. Until success was the only thing that could happen. Because by that point it was successfully imprinted( the new story) on the mind enough that it was pushed into the physical reality.
So this is not any easy path. Only because we are all retraining our minds. But once you get it things will flow easily and we all have a multitude of things at our disposal to achieve our goals. That includes you too ☺
That's exactly what happened. I forced myself to change. And I did.
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pixelpie wrote:
MadMoiselle87 wrote:
So you think if I won't give up I'll eventually succeed no matter what?
I've read the 'what if I told you' thread from OC and this raised my mood guess I'll try it with this way of thinkingYes I do☺
Thanks pixel pie you safed my day ☺️
You have to figure out what works for you. I am still working on getting my love back and I have been in NC since the beginning of this year. It has been a hard but fulfilling journey. It is a roller coaster of emotions but you have to believe and be dedicated to do the work. I just recently had my "AHA" moment and thanks to Cherie encouraging me to try scripting everyday I have never felt better. It will come but know your WORTH!! It took me almost a year to get where I am at now and I am not fully healed but I am a hell of a lot stronger than I was a few months ago.