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I can't seem to find the other cord cutting thread, so I'll post here.
I've done the cord cutting several times on different exes. I think it's really weird that I haven't had any results like others have reported.
Ex #1 (dated last year) - still has not contacted me to follow up with the workout (it's been 1-2 weeks)
Ex #2 (dated 13 years ago) - still haven't heard from him since Aug 20th after I made a joke about him - it was just me being silly (although I haven't been doing PW on him)
Ex #3 (dated 8 years ago) - no contact since June 30! (haven't been doing PW though, he has a gf and also a side girl)
Ex #4 (dated 4 years ago) - no contact for about a week (but I only did PW on him once, really don't care if he talks to me)
The only sign I got that it might be working is - 2 days after doing cord cutting on ex #3, he changed his profile photo (he rarely does it, maybe once every 4 months).
It's a great meditation and I will continue to do it for MY benefit, as it makes me feel powerful and disconnected... but I have no evidence that the other person has actually been feeling it.
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Just coming back to update:
I cut the cord on several exes at the beginning of the month (I actually did it all in one session). I found it strange that it's like I cut them out of my life.. when it's not supposed to have that effect.
But, ex #3 (no contact since June 30) reappeared yesterday to wish me a happy birthday!! I'm really really happy that he remembered. I still have a lot of love for him, even though I hate that he disappears for months at a time.
Anyways, I'm going to be careful the next time I cut the cord. Will make sure NOT to see them disappear into the distance. Gotta keep 'em close, but detached from them.
Fact that ex #3 came back does tell me cutting the cord doesn't cut them out completely... I just don't know why HE reappeared but not my other exes.
Last edited by getitgirl (9/24/2016 12:51 am)
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Good afternoon,
I just recently read about cutting the cord(s) on this board. I tried it this morning because let's face it I was heavily corded to the object of my attention (to me it was boarding on obsession). I think about him all day and he even appears in my dreams. I'm positive my friends are tired of hearing about him. Lol.
I found an online guided cord cutting Mediation and tried it out for about 10-15 minutes and I must confess that even after one try I feel somewhat lighter, like I've taken some of my power back and restored some of the power balance. I will most assuredly be doing this again (several times if need be) until I feel normal and whole again.
Thank you ladies the information here is priceless
Last edited by LHixon313 (9/29/2016 11:47 am)
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LHixon313 wrote:
Good afternoon,
I just recently read about cutting the cord(s) on this board. I tried it this morning because let's face it I was heavily corded to the object of my attention (to me it was boarding on obsession). I think about him all day and he even appears in my dreams. I'm positive my friends are tired of hearing about him. Lol.
I found an online guided cord cutting Mediation and tried it out for about 10-15 minutes and I must confess that even after one try I feel somewhat lighter, like I've taken some of my power back and restored some of the power balance. I will most assuredly be doing this again (several times if need be) until I feel normal and whole again.
Thank you ladies the information here is priceless
What cutting the cord meditation you doing?
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I hope most of you are using my "cutting the cord" meditation. ;-)
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I do have meditations and will be adding 25 more over the next few days! I will update when I do. They are on my website below. :-)
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Lanie Stevens wrote:
I do have meditations and will be adding 25 more over the next few days! I will update when I do. They are on my website below. :-)
Hey Lanie, I'm excited about the new meditations. I love your current ones!! 😍