yes! i am extremely overwhelmed. been hearing so many things lately about needing to just let it go. and that visualizing once is enough. but then i come here and am convinced i must visualize everyday. im not sure if my biggest problem is believing..or letting go..because all i have so far is contact...but pretty sure he has another girl..and he goes hot and cold on me so much its hard not to lose hope and think its never going to work....arg!!