keep focussing on the image of the deal you made in Venice (married, move in together). Feel what you would feel when that happens. Imagine all the details Keep this picture in this head when visualizing, that's the desired outcome you want to manifest. 

Evey2222 wrote:

Thank you, I keep trying but visualising has become really hard. My mind keeps going off thinking about other things or I fall asleep!! I suppose that's down to being really tired though...I am feeling weird at the moment. Like I still want to manifest a new relationship with him, but I feel like giving up as I cant be bothered anymore, I love him with everything I have. I think I am focusing too much on the how at the moment instead of wish fulfilled. 

Thank you for your reply xxxx

Thats exactly how I feel too. I love HIM with Every cell in my body but when I try to PW him at night I Fall asleep. However, I notice now that during the day When my vibes are up I also think About our future picture. Which feels really good/doesnt feel like work. So thats a good thing I guess

Evey2222 wrote:

Oh my god that's so weird, that's what happened to me today whilst I was walking to work, I just found myself picturing our future and it felt really easy and no work at all, like being pregnant, seeing family, being with him. Maybe its a side effect of the technique! I started to question if I even wanted him back but I also know when I am run down and feeling worn out (I'm training for a 10 mile run and working my nuts off at the moment lol independent ladies woo!) So i think its making me think differently at the moment, after its done i hope i will go back to normal! Because I do know I love him so much, and i know deep down he loves me too! xxxx

That feels awesome, right? When I read your post it's just like if I hear myself talking haha. I also had the feeling that I start questioning myself because of the lack of focus during PW. But I know in my heart that what he and I have is so special. It's just not the end for us (although it's been a year and we both have other relationships atm). When I had a busy day (I am also working out a lot and crazy busy with graduating) it is harder for me too to focus. However, all those little moments in between I just know.. I just need to let go of the past, let go of the desperation and the how and when.. In my heart I know we already are together through a special connection and that's enough for now I try to be thankful for all the possibilities of me improving myself that this temporary break brought me (including getting more advanced in LOA). Because of this break I became such more positive, am not depressed anymore, I became more relax, I lost almost 25 kg (55 pounds), became more healthy, confident and fit.. and most important: I am HAPPY with myself ! Just hold on to those feelings !! Desire is never a one way thing (One of my favorite quotes which stuck with me from this amazing article that OC shared with us:  http://www.mustsparkjoy.com/get-ex-boyfriend-back-good/  if you haven't read it, it's worth your time). 

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