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Help.....It's gone
HELP...I can't seem to connect. Well it feels like I can't connect. I've never had this trouble before never on a weekend or days I'm not working when I'm relaxed and not tired. I have had trouble once or twice before but that was because I was so tired my mind kept drifting off. For the last 2 days I've had struggled to get him to come when I call his name. When he does come, I look into his eyes but I don't feel anything, I don't feel like we are connecting. I try and get him to say stuff but I don't feel it. I've tried using Lanie's MP3 with the silence, without the silence, I've done it on my own without any MP3. I've even tried the BWD thinking that might light the fire... but nothing. When I finish the meditation I then feel very emotional and start to cry and really feel like I miss him but I think that's because I felt I couldn't reach him. I want him to get my messages. When I'm working I only do it at night before bed but when I'm not working I do it 2 -3 times a day. It depends on what I'm doing and how busy I am with my life and they have always been the most intense connections. That is until now. I'm starting to PANIC!!!!!. I want him to think of me at least.
Is he just gone forever. Please help me bring back the beautiful connections I had. 😥
- Lanie Stevens
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Re: Help.....It's gone
I hope you recognize that the lack of connection is only in your mind. You cannot fail to connect with him when you use my technique but due to doubt, insecurity, fear and many other things you are blocking the visualization. Don't try so hard and don't place so much emphasis on success or failure. You cannot fail to connect with the person even if your rational mind plays the tricks like "he is not turning around". You DO connect, you cannot fail to connect so take away the fear factor. You mind is powerful and although the doubts that are being placed there by you it is YOU who can remove them. Hope this helps! xoxoxoxoxo
Big Hugs, Lanie
- Joshbemine
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Re: Help.....It's gone
Thanks Lanie for your response.
I am well aware that it is to do with me. There are times I don't feel any emotion when I do it, it's like talking to a brick wall with his face on it. But if you say he gets it anyway whether I'm bored or not as long as you believe. Then I have nothing to worry about. I just thought I had read somewhere where you said it's the emotion they get. So I just naturally thought because I wasn't feeling any emotion he wasn't getting my messages. Looks like I was wrong in thinking that. I feel better now knowing that he gets my messages no matter what even when I'm feeling bored talking to a brick wall. As for the turning around I stopped worrying about that and generally don't get him to turn around after I read Neville Goddard prayer The art of believing. Where he said just get his attention. So that's what I've been doing.
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