Hi,
Ok, so my guy has been in touch today and yesterday and even said that we must go out with our friend (he joked once that it was his bodyguard) for my my birthday.
Now, I am scared that he will find out that i confided in my friend about us and he thinks i didn't.
Why am i scared? Coz the new girl he hired to work turns out to be a good friend of my friend - the girl that i told her stuff. She promised she didn't tell her anything. She understands how sensitive the issue is. I know that if i focus on him knowing it will happen for real. What would you do to make sure it doesn't get out?

It is strange that i was worried that he might like her and become close to the new girl just like we were. But I managed to not let it get to me after really working at it and doing meditations each time the thought of her crept up and it was working. Now, i learn that she is a good friend of my friend. What you make of that if anything?

Another question, would you make the guy you like jealous and would you date others? Coz Lanie does say to move on and not sit around waiting. Last night I met up with this guy that i know - i am attracted to him but that is it. Anyways, at 8 am this morning my guy sends me a message and writes ' by the last seen time i see you partied till late'. I told him that i went with my sisters to a restaurant (true) but i didn't add that i saw the other guy afterwards. My friends told me that i made a huge mistake and i should have told him to make him jealous esp. since they suspect he is already jealous of that guy. Do you make your guys jealous and does it work? They said that i don't know how to get into a guy's mind...true..If it were any of my other guy friends i would have told them but i am not comfortable telling him about guys.
Please please answer
Thanks