I'll let Lanie or another more experienced poster answer that. I'm still just new to this and learning. I'm still thinking about how well that would work. If he sets foot in a coffee shop he'll be thinking of me, which is perfect if he makes a coffee date with someone else.  

You know this may be the most under utilized part of this method so far. I keep having more and more ideas of what to use. Like, why use certain songs in hope he'll hear them on the radio. Use the theme song to his favorite tv show. He'll be thinking of you the whole time he does a netflix binge. Or use the song he uses for his ring tone. Every time his phone rings he'll think its going to be you and then get disappointed when it's not. 

Sushi wrote:

I am working on it, but my guy is the most stubborn person ever. He is still in love with me. He still says so. The last woman he tried to date dumped him because she said he's still in love with me. But he won't admit he's in the wrong. He's still angry at me for things that were his own damn fault. So in my visualization, I have him tell me "Its like I just woke up from a bad dream. I can't understand why I treated you so badly or why I was so angry. When I woke up, it's like all the anger just melted away and I don't even know why I was angry anymore. I realize I was the cause of everything that went wrong. I promise I will make it all up to you. Please come home." 

Any tips for how to get through to someone that's extra resistant? 

I feel you may be shooting yourself in the foot here.. by saying he is the most stubborn person ever aren't you just affirming that he is the most stubborn person ever so he will keep being the most stubborn person ever...make sense? When you should be affirming that he is getting the messages you are sending him, that it is working and he is not stubborn after all and he is indeed on his way back to you Just have 100% belief that this really does work and feel happy about it! Our words and our thoughts are so powerful so we need to be careful what stories we tell ourselves as this can really slow down the process. Also you must remember that the past does not matter! It sounds like there is still some resentment when you say "He's still angry at me for things that were his own damn fault" this should not be something you are focussing on, whatever happened in the past you need to forgive it and let it go for the sake of moving forward. I am by no means an expert so I could be way off the mark, but this is my advice and I hope it helps in some way

Sushi wrote:

Blissful wrote:

Sushi wrote:

I am working on it, but my guy is the most stubborn person ever. He is still in love with me. He still says so. The last woman he tried to date dumped him because she said he's still in love with me. But he won't admit he's in the wrong. He's still angry at me for things that were his own damn fault. So in my visualization, I have him tell me "Its like I just woke up from a bad dream. I can't understand why I treated you so badly or why I was so angry. When I woke up, it's like all the anger just melted away and I don't even know why I was angry anymore. I realize I was the cause of everything that went wrong. I promise I will make it all up to you. Please come home." 

Any tips for how to get through to someone that's extra resistant? 

I feel you may be shooting yourself in the foot here.. by saying he is the most stubborn person ever aren't you just affirming that he is the most stubborn person ever so he will keep being the most stubborn person ever...make sense? When you should be affirming that he is getting the messages you are sending him, that it is working and he is not stubborn after all and he is indeed on his way back to you Just have 100% belief that this really does work and feel happy about it! Our words and our thoughts are so powerful so we need to be careful what stories we tell ourselves as this can really slow down the process. Also you must remember that the past does not matter! It sounds like there is still some resentment when you say "He's still angry at me for things that were his own damn fault" this should not be something you are focussing on, whatever happened in the past you need to forgive it and let it go for the sake of moving forward. I am by no means an expert so I could be way off the mark, but this is my advice and I hope it helps in some way

No, it's not so much that I am still resentful of what he's done and the way he's acted. It's just that it was so damn bizarre and convoluted in his thinking process, I spent way too much time trying to figure it out. So, to reword it, up until I started this, he has been extremely stubborn and his anger at me was irrational. Better?

Okay, I understand what you're saying but I was just trying to make the point that the current reality of your situation does not matter, you should only be focussing on what you want to create, the relationship you want with you love, how you want your love to be and how you would feel if you had all that you desired. At the moment your current reality is telling you he is stubborn and angry at you and that does not make you feel good and the more you focus on that the more the universe will bring it to you and he will continue to act this way. You need to shift your focus and train your sub conscious mind to believe he is happy with you, he loves you, he is not angry with you and he is so eager to please you and he adores you. Visualize the end result but don't worry about the how or when it's going to happen. Just believe that you are meant to have everything you've ever wanted and it will come to you if you just have 100% belief and trust in LOA it does not fail and it will always deliver to you what you are focussed upon so we need to make sure the majority of our thoughts are good ones! I know I'm a bit repetitive! but I do believe it really is just that simple, it is just my opinion and what I have taken from all my readings on LOA so I hope I made sense.. I tend to ramble! But we're all in this together and I like to try to help