Oasiscalm wrote:

emmiline wrote:

Hi sag97,
Going forward you need to be careful who you open up to about what you are doing or where your focus is - you actually gave your power away indirectly by confiding in her.

That was a really crappy thing for her to do, and if i were you i would examine her motives. You dont help friends by sneaking behind their backs and pretending to be them... and this happened after you explained how you were in NC with him. .

This could be a slight overdramatising of the friend.

She sent a message from her phone to get him to reply in the grand scheme of things, whilst slightly immature I would not say she was being malicious at all.

From an LOA point of view one could even extrapolate and say that the OP's subconscious created that situation to initiate contact with him

It was my opinion and well - intended, its up to the OP if she wants to take it on board or not.

pixelpie wrote:

sag97 wrote:

Well I'm pretty sure there's another girl.
He recently commented on a post that said: "a person who gets angry easily, subconsciously wants to be deeply loved" and he tagged a girl on it and commented: "Told you so!"
Guys what do I do now?
How do I ignore the reality that she is there 😩
Also, he takes more than one hour to reply to me so I don't think this is going somewhere😩😩
Uhh I'm sorry for the negativity, it's just that it hit me so suddenly, I'm all shaking right now😩😩❤️

So what forget about her shes not even real... stop assuming about things you don't like. have you read this? http://laniestevensforum.boardhost.com/viewtopic_mobile.php?id=1396

Or even this?http://laniestevensforum.boardhost.com/viewtopic_mobile.php?id=1201

That's two great links there PixelPie 😜😂😂👌🏾

So guys, I have been thinking and I decided.

I will let go. At least for now. I know we will be together, but I'll let it go just because I need to work on myself now. I remember when I first stopped talking to him (in spring) I was desperate, then I started practicing yoga and I felt much better. So this time around I also started practicing yoga all over again. I will start listening to those same binaural beats I did when he came back, also I'll sometimes do the technique (sometimes because I don't want to attach myself to him that much anymore). I'll work on my confidence, I'll tell myself I'm the most beautiful girl (I lost him because I thought I was unworthy of him, that he deserved a hotter girl etc.) I'll excercise. I'll continue to be grateful for everything I have, I'll continue to send love to everyone and eventually I'll be able to receive it back from everyone and from Him, or maybe even someone better. I also bought a new notebook that I'll dedicate to the LOA. I'll continue to meditate, cause it really helps me to calm my mind.

What do you guys think? Is it not a bad thing that I won't do the techniques every day?

p.s. yoga helps so much, it's only been 2days since I found out about the other girl and I already feel as if I don't care about him anymore!

Lanie said she didnt do the technique everyday. I believe in one of her post she said sometimes she didnt do it for a few weeks at a time.  You do it when its best and comfortable for you and no one else. Everyone is different