pixelpie wrote:

lalalovely wrote:

pixelpie wrote:

I think one topic should be on discipline. So many people are coming looking for a qwick fix. While loa can be and is a permanent fix if done right. It takes discipline. And alot of people here don't seem to understand that it will take time. How much really depends on how long it takes them to full understand and actually do whatever technique is working for them with full faith no matter what. Alsi it will not happen over night in a lot of cases it may take weeks or months or more. So yeah, discipline should be a topic ☺

That's a good one I think we should also include something besides 'getting our man back'. More focus on creating all of our aspects of life. Even manifesting the little crazy stuff. It all mathers and contributes to feeling like a powerful manifestor. 

I like where your going with this. But the real problem is not what people want most of the time on here most of the time its an ex or a new guy/girl since they read lanies books.

The real problem is a lack of objective. Too many people are running around doing the techniques without any objective in mind. To make this stuff work for you in the way you want. You have to do as most loa books, teachers, etc. say and that is get clear on what you really want. For example if you want to be with so-and- so. How do you want to be with them? Do you just want a text or a call? Do you want a few dates or a long term relationship? Do you want to be married to this person or just a hookup? You have to get clear on what you really want.

Then do the techniques thinking only of your end goal aka your real objective in mind. Live in the end like neveille says to.

Example: make your vizualizion about being married to the person already and what that's like if that is what you want with them. And stop vizualizing only little text and phone calls. Or another example if you want to work at or have a new job at your current job. Visualize yourself having that job and enjoying it. Not just an interview or other people saying you have the job. To get it and keep it you must feel yourself as not only having it but enjoying it too.

So I guess my second one is a topic on how to define your objective. I know that's another reason people keep giving up or thinking things are not working.

But really how can they if you keeps jumping from person to person(or job to job or thing to thing) with the technique and/or not knowing where you want things to go? The answer is it can not work that way. Not when you are in the driver's seat.

And that brings me to my last point. People need to realize they are in the driver's seat(know how to use loa only makes you aware that you are the one in the driver's seat. You always have been. You just didn't know/couldnt see it before you learnt of loa) and if your mind is all over the place as anything like the above the universe can only give you more of being all over the place until you give it a clear path.

I love how you say this. I completely agree with you. I also visualize/focus on the end results (at least I do my best to see it how I want it in the end). But with my post/suggestion I meant something different I believe ;) I know I had some trouble in the beginning with believing in myself in manifesting my love back. The belief in my own power really came when I start noticing my manifestations in other areas of life instead of focussing on the thing that didn't manifest yet (a relationship with my love). Other areas of my life are going nuts with manifestations right now:
- I visualized being an inspiration for others and now I recieve so many messages of friends and strangers who say I inspire them.. today I even had a company contact me with the question if they could use the pictures of my weightlossjourney and my story for their site.. LIKE WOW. I did visualize already seeing my pictures on their site. I even visualize being a coach there.. Guess that one is next in line for me;)
- I visualizes specific books I received for free very recently after I set my intention
- I manifested contact with friends from my past
- I manifested a trip to ibiza
- I manifested concert tickets
- I manifested a job by believing/seeing/feeling me already work there
and many many more.. So I make an objective (in another area) and manifest it

all these things raised the strongest believe in my own power EVER. That's what I meant with my post. So a topic about how to build a stronger belief (in getting your man back) by manifesting other things (for example).

Nevertheless, love your reply to my suggestion. I read it multiple times. You are so right with this. I just love the way you explain things. 

Oasiscalm wrote:

I am interested to know how many of you fab ladies are that are using PW/BWD are adopting an LOA mindset.

Do you think it would be helpful if we did a series on LOA principles.

 
This sounds awesome! I have put many links to LOA books on the shared links I really hope the girls on here read them you will definitely get some great pointers!! ☺️