lalalovely wrote:

Marz wrote:

I understand the connection you describe. Its the same connection I share and I think most of us girls here share with the men we are loving on during the technique.
I was also in a situation in the past where I did love 2 men and I didn't want to hurt either. Actually I still love them both, but I've since then figured out which is the love of my life
Yea it's confusing but life's confusing! I'm 36 and I still don't know shit 😆
Don't get frustrated when he doesn't text back. I forgot to mention that's a guy thing, they don't wrap up text convos like we do or say "k bye" (unless they're a beta male which I doubt he is). My sweetheart does that and I'll text him like "wtf you wanna let me know you're done with the convo?" and he'll go "lol sry" 😂😂😂 so dumb.
If you have a great guy that you love - it wouldn't be so bad to try to build that passion with him. But at the same time I try to imagine moving forward from this guy and it's just not a possibility - and I've tried - and I've driven him mad and he's driven me mad - but the love is still so incredibly strong. I imagine that this is your case with the POI (thanks for that).
What are you leaning towards?

Thank you for your replies Marz. I am trying for a year now to move forward from him (because I believe he left me for his new gf. But I simply can't move forward, everytime I try to forget him he (or his family) pops up in my reality. I feel such a special connection with him. Even though we are not in contact that much. Now I stopped replying to him on whatsapp. I have so much to say/ask him, but for now I talk to him through PW and let him initiate in reality. It's just so difficult/confusing that "I am moving forward with my life and my new love (and he is too)" but in my heart I still believe I will end up together with my POI and think/believe he has the same desire although he doesn't express it. I just have to "let go" and let the universe do her magic. There is just still resistance in my head which I can't get rid off..  
 

I get that. Just continue doing the PW and empower yourself the best you can. Take a look at my challenge thread and see what's happened with me thus far