'Change yourself and your world will change' - This is so true. Even though my desire is not fulfilled YET, I know my world is completely different compared to last year. I experience so much more love, gratefulness, happiness and abundance. I accomplished things I first could only dream of (and now I know how to turn my dreams into visualizations and eventually into reality). I have more faith in myself and my power. I am still building up this faith, but I will become the strongest, most beautiful, most positive and happiest version of myself. 

"To be honest every so often I ask why I wasted this technique on my guy and didn't just go straight for Ryan Gosling 😂 "

Lol I love you😂😂 thank you OC, very uplifting post as always💜

Oasiscalm wrote:

I don't post on the board as much as I used to due to my life becoming a bit more jam packed than before. However I am always reading the threads and monitoring the direction of conversation. Which brings me to posting this key bit of advice to you ladies, which is Please Don't Waste The Opportunity Finding PW/BWD Has Given You.

In finding these books you were giving an opportunity to glimpse inside yourself and see the power you have. To be honest every so often I ask why I wasted this technique on my guy and didn't just go straight for Ryan Gosling 😂 
As an added bonus you were given this fab forum where you could come to and celebrate the newfound internal power you had. It disappoints me to see so so so many long drawn out threads wowing about the fact "he didn't do this. He didn't say that. He doesn't love me. The technique won't work for me." And it is even more disappointing to see others enabling of this tone.

You have been given a great opportunity to move mountains in your life and you don't do that by staying in the same mental place where you saw those mountains as blocks to your desire.

Please remember this all stops and starts with you. Everything is your choice. You hold all of the cards. You hold the power.

A big part of using this technique and LOA is mindframe and mental attitude. Whatever you perceive as having power over you will continue to rule you. The purpose is to become the person you want to be. Change yourself and your world will change.

I know the anxiety that many of you are going through. But believe me when I say it has absolutely nothing to do with him. He is not the goal. Your desperation to get him back is not because he is the one. It's because you are lacking. But you can turn it around by focusing on yourself and building yourself back up and loving yourself as you should have been doing all along. And use the techniques with sincerity and confidence and u will see him come back.

Start with rereading PW listen to the message not just the technique. It's fine I skipped straight to the technique when I first bought the book. But I did go back and read the rest of the book eventually.

Ask yourself what is the overall message that Lanie is telling me? Then practice self love and start valuing yourself. Think what are you prepared to accept for yourself. Nourish your soul with positivity and empowerment. Myself and other forum members have shared amazing resources on here - use them.

 
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I really feel I would have never heard from him again after 5 months if I had not been doing this so I'm glad I found it. I'm continuing to work for his next contact and move forward into a relationship with him but in little steps at a time..