So, there is no doubt in my mind that PW works, I have been doing it for ages now and my love always contacts me. However....he still tells me he doesn't want a relationship he just wants to have fun. Which is confusing because if he just wanted to screw around then why doesn't he just go off and bang anyone in sight?

I know he is still in love with me, the reason he doesn't want to have sex with another girl is apparently because he trusts me. Could just be his words but I choose to believe him as I choose to believe he isn't an ass hole.

But right now, all i get from him is contact for sex. But my visualisations are mainly loving and romantic and committed relationship. I know he cares for me, he sometimes even shows jealously.

Am I doing PW wrong? Or is it just taking its own pace trying to influence him to be in a committed relationship with me again. I know it scares him, I am also trying to change for myself and be a better person for me. (Not that I am a bad person just ya know working on yourself and stuff you dont like  ) 

I am in love with this man, and I know deep in his heart he is in love with me too. He never stays away, he always comes back for something. He is now in the army so I understand why he feels the need to e cold and heartless but I have said to him just because you are in the army doesn't mean you have to be cold! He still send me pictures of his dads new dog, his new car, etc. So I know its there in him!!

Please any advice would be great! Sorry for the long post xxx