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12/05/2016 2:36 pm  #1


A little down.

So I've been doing PW and BWD on a guy I work with for the last 2 weeks or so. Well the 1st day I had some results but I think it's only cause I was sitting next to him doing BWD. Since then he hasn't even shown any signs it's working. He will glance at me once in a while but no talking to me or anything but he will talk to the other females in the class. I feel kind of inadequate...should I keep it up or no? He seems more interested in the other girls than me. Like they're the "popular" clique and I'm just kind of here....I was wanting him to ask me put before our last week in class together but I don't think that's gonna happen. I know the technique works but I wonder why it's not working on him.

12/05/2016 3:22 pm  #2


Re: A little down.

Hi dear, it def is working on him i think maybe he is trying to distract himself because of the feelings. Dont outwardly show him you have a crush just be indifferent and keep up the technique. Let us know what happens.


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12/06/2016 2:48 am  #3


Re: A little down.

Can you feel the difference in tone from when you were reporting your successes last week.

Maybe you have become too attached to the outcome

12/10/2016 4:10 pm  #4


Re: A little down.

Alikhy09 wrote:

So I've been doing PW and BWD on a guy I work with for the last 2 weeks or so. Well the 1st day I had some results but I think it's only cause I was sitting next to him doing BWD. Since then he hasn't even shown any signs it's working. He will glance at me once in a while but no talking to me or anything but he will talk to the other females in the class. I feel kind of inadequate...should I keep it up or no? He seems more interested in the other girls than me. Like they're the "popular" clique and I'm just kind of here....I was wanting him to ask me put before our last week in class together but I don't think that's gonna happen. I know the technique works but I wonder why it's not working on him.

If it isn't working it may be because you are allowing yourself to become too concerned with the outcome.  Just view it as a game and don't get so involved in the outcome.  It is not "life or death" if he doesn't ask you out so keep it light, fun and if he doesn't respond move on to the next person.  Don't allow it to affect your self-esteem!
 

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