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Hi ladies,
Would appreciate it if you could share with me some of your secrets in manifesting your boyfriend back! We ended our old relationship slightly more than a month ago. I have since been doing PW every night for around 3 weeks now but I have only been receiving discouraging news. Bumped into boyfriend and his date a few days ago outside. Even though they were not holding hands or whatsoever, I felt really discouraged and dejected. Last night I texted him and asked if he has totally given up on us. His reply was "not gonna think about it". I told him okay, i wont give up and the conversation ended. I am thankful that he did not say he has given up already but what does " not gonna think about it " really mean? I've been wondering but I do not want to ask him as I am worried it pushes him away.
Would really appreciate any form of help or tips. Thank you so much in advance!!! <3
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Welcome!
First off, cut all contact...whatever you do, don't contact him. Only contact him energetically through PW and BWD. No calls, no texts, no smoke signals, nada unless you have a child together; then just keep it to the bare essentials and don't discuss your relationship. Trust that the process is working. If you need to build trust, select another target that you see every day, and use the techniques on him and see his reactions. It absolutely works but you'll feel better about it if you see evidence.
Next, work on feeling good. Don't go on social media sites or be in a situation where you are going to see evidence of what you don't want. Every time you have any doubts, reassure yourself that he loves you and that he's on his way back to you. Do things you enjoy.
Third, go through the threads...most of your questions will be answered.
Tell your story to yourself, only the way you want to see it, don't dwell on the past.
Hope that helps you get started.
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What he says doesn't matter. Your situation is absolutely doable. People have come back from far worse where their target was ready to get a restraining order. You just need to follow the books. Get advice when you need it, but he's coming back soon. Be happy and be easy about things.
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DC wrote:
Welcome!
First off, cut all contact...whatever you do, don't contact him. Only contact him energetically through PW and BWD. No calls, no texts, no smoke signals, nada unless you have a child together; then just keep it to the bare essentials and don't discuss your relationship. Trust that the process is working. If you need to build trust, select another target that you see every day, and use the techniques on him and see his reactions. It absolutely works but you'll feel better about it if you see evidence.
Next, work on feeling good. Don't go on social media sites or be in a situation where you are going to see evidence of what you don't want. Every time you have any doubts, reassure yourself that he loves you and that he's on his way back to you. Do things you enjoy.
Third, go through the threads...most of your questions will be answered.
Tell your story to yourself, only the way you want to see it, don't dwell on the past.
Hope that helps you get started.
Great advice DC! The worst thing to do is contact the guy because it assures him you are waiting for him AND he can act distant knowing it devastates you. Contact only using the technique and let him wonder what the hell you are doing and who you are with!