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12/19/2016 11:56 pm  #1


Advice Please!

Hi all So, last week I posted about my target getting jealous when he found out I was on the phone with a guy. He had stopped messaging me when he asked if it was a guy and I said yes. Two days later he told me that he is upset and can't deal with this right now because he has to focus on his final exams (school). I thanked him for letting me know something was wrong because I found it odd that he just stopped messaging or replying to my texts. I also asked him why he is upset and that maybe he can tell me about it when he is done his exams.

It has been over a week now and still nothing from him. I'm not sure when his last exam is. I'm wondering if I should message him to say hello or just wait for him to message me?

12/20/2016 2:20 am  #2


Re: Advice Please!

Perhaps he is upset he let you go (I am assuming he broke up with you) and now you can be with anyone you want. He seems to be upset about you now being in a position to have any other man. Maybe he is conflicted about his feelings for you since he must have realised he doesn't want to lose you. He must have been veruy jealous knowing you are talking to another man.
Just relax. He will be back. He has his exams going on and he is upset. Now if you will text him during his exams especially when he said he has to focus on his exams and he can't deal with this during exams, then he might think you aren't understanding him. Try and understand him here. He needs to study and he needs his time. So don't text him at all right now. Just leave him alone for time being. It has been only a week. He will talk to you after the exams. He will talk to you when the he thinks the time is right. Keep doing the technique and live your life happily.


RISE

12/20/2016 8:16 am  #3


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Thanks so much for your reply Yes, it seems like he was really jealous about it...jealous enough to be upset and stop talking. He even asked if I was talking to a guy, so it is for sure something that bothers him. Your message has helped me to feel better about it. You're right. I will sit back, chillax and he will be back once his exams are over.



Aphrodite11 wrote:

Perhaps he is upset he let you go (I am assuming he broke up with you) and now you can be with anyone you want. He seems to be upset about you now being in a position to have any other man. Maybe he is conflicted about his feelings for you since he must have realised he doesn't want to lose you. He must have been veruy jealous knowing you are talking to another man.
Just relax. He will be back. He has his exams going on and he is upset. Now if you will text him during his exams especially when he said he has to focus on his exams and he can't deal with this during exams, then he might think you aren't understanding him. Try and understand him here. He needs to study and he needs his time. So don't text him at all right now. Just leave him alone for time being. It has been only a week. He will talk to you after the exams. He will talk to you when the he thinks the time is right. Keep doing the technique and live your life happily.

 

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12/23/2016 10:44 am  #4


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So, I ended up messaging him to ask how his exams went. I could tell he is still bugged and was just saying stupid things. We ended up making some small talk about christmas shopping, etc. And then when the convo died I went ahead and asked him why he was upset last week. It was around 2am and he didn't reply. I know he was probably up because he stays up pretty late, but yea, anyway he didn't reply yet.

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12/23/2016 8:59 pm  #5


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Yeah he probably doesn't know how to answer that without looking like a fool. 

12/24/2016 12:23 am  #6


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Lol well he completely ignored my question and went all day without messaging until tonight. He asked if I wanted to go shopping with him next week.

Sushi wrote:

Yeah he probably doesn't know how to answer that without looking like a fool. 

 

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12/24/2016 12:43 am  #7


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Honestly, probably a good decision on his part. He could either lie or admit that he was jealous. Neither seems like a good option. lol You know the truth anyways so let it go. ;) 

12/24/2016 1:47 am  #8


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Very true, sushi!

Sushi wrote:

Honestly, probably a
good decision on his part. He could either lie or admit that he was jealous. Neither seems like a good option. lol You know the truth anyways so let it go. ;) 

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