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1/04/2017 9:35 pm  #1


Days that I miss him more

Hi everyone,

Just wondering why there are days that I really miss him more? Especially after Ive done a visualization the night before, where I feel connected and everything. The next morning I feel like this, I am wondering is it because it worked and we are connected? Or is it just a regular feeling to happen? Just wondering

1/05/2017 7:09 pm  #2


Re: Days that I miss him more

It's nice that you miss him but the goal should be to make him miss you (want you, need you, can't live without you).  Once you finish with your meditation session, you're supposed to release him.  I understand that you can't help how you feel but I don't know what missing him denotes.  Anyway Girlfriend, just keep working on him.


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1/08/2017 4:17 pm  #3


Re: Days that I miss him more

Soul wrote:

Hi everyone,

Just wondering why there are days that I really miss him more? Especially after Ive done a visualization the night before, where I feel connected and everything. The next morning I feel like this, I am wondering is it because it worked and we are connected? Or is it just a regular feeling to happen? Just wondering

Be sure to disconnect from his after the visualization.  You need to feel free and happy and he is the one who should be missing you and miserable.  :-)

1/11/2017 1:00 am  #4


Re: Days that I miss him more

Thank you Ladies! What should I do when I miss him or think about him a lot?

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1/11/2017 1:06 am  #5


Re: Days that I miss him more

Soul wrote:

Thank you Ladies! What should I do when I miss him or think about him a lot?

Do something to keep your mind occupied with other thoughts - read a book, work on your hobbies, give yourself a
manicure, organize your closets or whatever.  Just stay busy with something else but keep doing your meditations.


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1/11/2017 1:35 am  #6


Re: Days that I miss him more

I like to imagine him being the one missing me terribly and can't beingwithout me.

1/11/2017 2:03 am  #7


Re: Days that I miss him more

Justaspeckintheuniverse wrote:

I like to imagine him being the one missing me terribly and can't beingwithout me.

This. Just imagine him driving and missing you, during PW hear him say "I miss you every day all day." And giving you lots of hugs. Make sure he's the one smothering you with love and emotions that he misses you!! Not the other way around


 

1/11/2017 8:20 pm  #8


Re: Days that I miss him more

Thank you everyone for being helpful! I just don't know what to do on the days that I really miss him, especially today it's awful. I guess its because Im workigg where we used to work and there are things that bring lots of memories. Last month I was weak and messaged him, he didnt reply and it hurt,  now I am feeling the urge to snapchat him but I dpnt want to because Im affraid he wont reply and it will hurt me. So ai just dont know what to do.

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1/11/2017 9:36 pm  #9


Re: Days that I miss him more

Soul wrote:

Thank you everyone for being helpful! I just don't know what to do on the days that I really miss him, especially today it's awful. I guess its because Im workigg where we used to work and there are things that bring lots of memories. Last month I was weak and messaged him, he didnt reply and it hurt,  now I am feeling the urge to snapchat him but I dpnt want to because Im affraid he wont reply and it will hurt me. So ai just dont know what to do.

 
I have messaged my ex and he has remained silent. I made it so I had to start over from square one. When I had the dream he told me he loved me I sent him a message saying "thank you" . He never responded, but I didn't want him to. That was October 30th , so I must start over from there and not let my emotions rule my actions. Just focus on being patient and using pw lovingly and patiently and expecting him to come back to me but not rushing him to do so. It will happen. You can try to date other guys as a distraction.

1/11/2017 9:40 pm  #10


Re: Days that I miss him more

Soul wrote:

Thank you everyone for being helpful! I just don't know what to do on the days that I really miss him, especially today it's awful. I guess its because Im workigg where we used to work and there are things that bring lots of memories. Last month I was weak and messaged him, he didnt reply and it hurt, now I am feeling the urge to snapchat him but I dpnt want to because Im affraid he wont reply and it will hurt me. So ai just dont know what to do.

You need to read Lanie's PP.  Do NOT chase after him.  Keep yourself occupied with other things.


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