Kewifi wrote:

I recently found out about all this and was really inspired to try Lanie's techniques. I read the books and listened to the Guided meditations although i would always fall asleep. So i bought a journal and began writing about about things i wanted to happen the next day. I wrote about receiving a job confirmation and it worked. A week ago, my boyfriend told me he needed space. I wrote about him hanging with my best friend, and him venting to her his feelings, things i wanted to hear him say...it worked, she invited him to hang out and he did..i manifested this! However, he told her he was in love with someone else. Since i stumbled upon this, i've neverrrr thought that would be what he would say. I've wrote nothing but positive things. I read the text and i got this nervous feeling in my chest but on the way to get my best friend and all throughout the night i have been repeating my boyfriend is in love with me..i'm lost, i'm thinking this is a test of my faith. I keep repeating and try to remain positive but the feeling comes and goes. Any help or suggestions on how to remove the feeling would be greatly appreciated!

Welcome Kewifi! 

I just found out about Lanie's meditation methods last October so I'm relatively new to it myself.  I'm not an expert
on it or men, but I know that if you work on your meditations and visualizations consistently you will get results.
Make sure you get all three of Lanie's books - PW, BWD and PP and read them and do what she says.  I'm not
sure what's going on between your man and your best friend but it is never a good idea for another woman to be
dealing with your man - you don't need a go between, either deal with him yourself or don't.  I'm sure you trust your
BF but sometimes women want what you've got, it could be your own sister.  So be patient, work on your man,
read all three of the books and hang out here to share your experiences with the other ladies, you can really learn
a lot.


Good Luck!!!

Indigo wrote:

Kewifi wrote:

I recently found out about all this and was really inspired to try Lanie's techniques. I read the books and listened to the Guided meditations although i would always fall asleep. So i bought a journal and began writing about about things i wanted to happen the next day. I wrote about receiving a job confirmation and it worked. A week ago, my boyfriend told me he needed space. I wrote about him hanging with my best friend, and him venting to her his feelings, things i wanted to hear him say...it worked, she invited him to hang out and he did..i manifested this! However, he told her he was in love with someone else. Since i stumbled upon this, i've neverrrr thought that would be what he would say. I've wrote nothing but positive things. I read the text and i got this nervous feeling in my chest but on the way to get my best friend and all throughout the night i have been repeating my boyfriend is in love with me..i'm lost, i'm thinking this is a test of my faith. I keep repeating and try to remain positive but the feeling comes and goes. Any help or suggestions on how to remove the feeling would be greatly appreciated!

Welcome Kewifi! 

I just found out about Lanie's meditation methods last October so I'm relatively new to it myself.  I'm not an expert
on it or men, but I know that if you work on your meditations and visualizations consistently you will get results.
Make sure you get all three of Lanie's books - PW, BWD and PP and read them and do what she says.  I'm not
sure what's going on between your man and your best friend but it is never a good idea for another woman to be
dealing with your man - you don't need a go between, either deal with him yourself or don't.  I'm sure you trust your
BF but sometimes women want what you've got, it could be your own sister.  So be patient, work on your man,
read all three of the books and hang out here to share your experiences with the other ladies, you can really learn
a lot.


Good Luck!!!

Thank you Indigo, their relationship is 100% platonic. She is madly in love with someone else lol.  The patience part is not where i'm struggling. In my journal i don't even have us getting to back together right away..i just wrote by Feb 18th we would be back together. Am i setting myself up for failure by being this exact? I'mjust very clueless as to how he said what he did when it was not on my mind. I'm pretty sure he isn't, his actions just really tell me he isn't. I do not want to give up on this, but i felt like maybe hearing that i should? Also that feeling i felt while reading her messages..like a choked up feeling..i kept trying to sing happy songs and my the words were getting stuck in my throat lol. But it would come and go..its gone now and it faded as i was wring my post last night. Possibly calm me down because i knew i would receive sone reassuring advice here. Also, she spoke to him because i thought we were not suppose o have contact unless he  initiated which he has yet to do. Its hard, but i have no problem not contacting him for the greater good lol.

Hi kewifi. I would avoid trying to put time and dates on a manifestation. Lanie's books are great and there are other very informative books out there also. Her techniques do work and LOA works so be careful with your thoughts!! The universe gives to you what your thoughts and feelings project. So any fear or other negative feeling that you give off will come back in 'larger doses'. Keep it positive. Do not send a friend to chat with him. You chat with him, through your thoughts and visualisations

I have read so many. I will have a search through some of the ones I have read and let you know