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I am truly grateful to be able to sit here and write a little success story. I am please to write that over the course of this past week, I have been able to manifest him into my life more. We starting hanging out on Saturday when he invited me over to his mother's house for his birthday dinner celebration and then asked me if I wanted to go out and play pool. To me, this was a big deal because we haven't been seen together out in public since October but we have hung out and spoken to each other on and off. Since Saturday, he has wanted to see and spend time with me nearly every day this week. I would like to mention that not only have I been doing my PW sessions but I have been practicing the Cord Cutting Meditation every day as well. I don't know if it is a coincidence, but since the cord cutting meditation, our times together have been more happy and more fun. I also just finished reading the book, "The Power of Intention" by Wayne Dyer, which I think has helped me tremendously on trying to maintain a positive outlook. He has also mentioned us hanging out and spending time together again so I am hopeful that things will continue to improve.
But........
there is still some slight resistance coming from his end. While he has been loving, affectionate, and kind towards me (acting like a boyfriend with kisses, hugs, cuddling, and 'I love yous'), he keeps continuing to tell me that he doesn't want a relationship right now or for a little while but he does have hopes that we might possibly be together again ONE DAY. As you may know, ONE DAY and/or SOME DAY, is not a day of the week. I am trying to not let this get to me and create negative thought patterns in my head, I am struggling a little bit to not want more than what he is telling me that he is currently wanting. My question would be to this forum, do I continue doing PW and visualizing him coming around and wanting a relationship with me again, or do I just live in the moment and enjoy what is currently happening? Naturally, I would love to manifest us in a committed relationship again but I do concern myself with "free will" and if we are both wanting different things, then wouldn't we eventually be on a different vibrational frequency?
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I don't necessarily believe in free will, but that's a discussion for another time.
Just keep doing PW and imagine him telling you, "I want to be in a committed relationship with you." "I want you to be my woman." etc.
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wanderlusting wrote:
I am truly grateful to be able to sit here and write a little success story. I am please to write that over the course of this past week, I have been able to manifest him into my life more. We starting hanging out on Saturday when he invited me over to his mother's house for his birthday dinner celebration and then asked me if I wanted to go out and play pool. To me, this was a big deal because we haven't been seen together out in public since October but we have hung out and spoken to each other on and off. Since Saturday, he has wanted to see and spend time with me nearly every day this week. I would like to mention that not only have I been doing my PW sessions but I have been practicing the Cord Cutting Meditation every day as well. I don't know if it is a coincidence, but since the cord cutting meditation, our times together have been more happy and more fun. I also just finished reading the book, "The Power of Intention" by Wayne Dyer, which I think has helped me tremendously on trying to maintain a positive outlook. He has also mentioned us hanging out and spending time together again so I am hopeful that things will continue to improve.
But........
there is still some slight resistance coming from his end. While he has been loving, affectionate, and kind towards me (acting like a boyfriend with kisses, hugs, cuddling, and 'I love yous'), he keeps continuing to tell me that he doesn't want a relationship right now or for a little while but he does have hopes that we might possibly be together again ONE DAY. As you may know, ONE DAY and/or SOME DAY, is not a day of the week. I am trying to not let this get to me and create negative thought patterns in my head, I am struggling a little bit to not want more than what he is telling me that he is currently wanting. My question would be to this forum, do I continue doing PW and visualizing him coming around and wanting a relationship with me again, or do I just live in the moment and enjoy what is currently happening? Naturally, I would love to manifest us in a committed relationship again but I do concern myself with "free will" and if we are both wanting different things, then wouldn't we eventually be on a different vibrational frequency?
It's is great that you had dinner at his mom's house and you are spending more time together. Keep doing
your meditations. The only thing I see wrong with this picture is that it seems that you are making yourself
available whenever he wants to see you. That is a mistake. Don't be at his beck and call. Make sure you
read and follow what's in Lanie's Book 3, PP.