Evey2222 wrote:

You are only as old as you feel ;) You guys will be fine!! Hope to read your success story one day! xxx
  

  
  
Exactly.  I feel really old.  I have a herniated disk in my lower back for
over twenty years (car accident) and I'm usually alright, but some days
it's difficult.  Anyway, thank you for your support.  I appreciate it
  
  
 

Indigo wrote:

Evey2222 wrote:

You are only as old as you feel ;) You guys will be fine!! Hope to read your success story one day! xxx
  

  
  
Exactly.  I feel really old.  I have a herniated disk in my lower back for
over twenty years (car accident) and I'm usually alright, but some days
it's difficult.  Anyway, thank you for your support.  I appreciate it
  
  
 

Oh I'm sorry to hear! Do you do yoga? I hear that really helps with bad joints and healing injuries? My nerves and joints are quite bad and I find yoga helps quite a bit xx

Indigo wrote:

Evey2222 wrote:

Oh I'm sorry to hear! Do you do yoga? I hear that really helps with bad joints and healing injuries? My nerves and joints are quite bad and I find yoga helps quite a bit xx
  

  
  
Thanks.  Mostly just stretching my back muscles and dancing around,
maybe some yoga poses would do me good and then I could use it on
my man when we consummate.  To Lanie's latest Book 4, that one is
not about PW though she mentions it, she goes over the reasons why
your ex would come back, explains NC, and what to do if he's just not
right for you among other things.  I have never done exes, when I kick
a man to the curb I am done with him, he is deprived of my presence
forever that is his punishment for doing whatever he did to get X'd,
and so a book about exes doesn't interest me so much.  But all of
her writings are useful because Lanie imparts so much knowledge,
whether it's her books or her blog. 
  
  
 

That makes a lot of sense actually, I do love her books, well the guy I was seeing, he was never really an ex, as we never made it official. But I do still want to try again with him as he was very respectful when ending things as well. I think I will stick to her other books as I love them Probably because he isn't a proper ex that it doesn't really resonate with me! Thank you though, I do feel he will be back! And I love using lanies techniques as well, they are fun to use and very powerful as well! Love your way of thinking though about the exes and its true, they are the ones who miss out on us fabulous ladies! xx 

I'm getting many signs right now and last week he even sent me a video from himself after I had to write him because I assumed something stupid.. He mentioned that he kept my selfmade coupon card for a movie night together (my christmas gift for him) but since that nothing... On the weekend I was at a musical and he liked some stuff I posted which made me happy but now it's a strange pause that makes me afraid.. He even doesn't like stuff I'm posting on facebook anymore absout things which connected us in the past ...

Guess I'm just impatient but sometimes I'm afraid that he really wants to keep that other girl...
 

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Minami wrote:

This is a great idea 😃
I guess for me not really worry but by nature I'm not exactly a patient person and also my past with other guys were not that great...
I wanna give a shout out to mcleanie and blue for being so patient with me in my endless pms and giving me encouragement and support plus just girly chatting that I really enjoy!
Xoxo

Indigo..hope you get well soon 💓

I know the feeling! Its hard not to worry when you have been burnt in the past, but try not to focus on that. I tend to see it as a lesson of what not you want in a man, and that we deserve to be treated so so much better! So we will attract our loves or someone better because we deserve it xx