My doubt is whether I'm connecting when I'm doing PW because sometimes I just don't feel anything.

Moneee wrote:

I'm worried that my PW and BWD techniques aren't getting to my ex because he is still barley talking to me and when it seemed like they were working he would pull away and say "he doesn't want to do this anymore" I'm trying to remain positive but I keep having the doubt in the back of my mind.
  
 

  
  
Welcome Moneee!  Make sure you read all of Lanie's Just for Women
series.  There are other things you need to be doing besides just PW
to get him back.
  
  

 

Stacie83 wrote:

I was really positive until a week ago and then my ex hasn't spoken to me, started to avoid me and seems to be getting more serious with his new girlfriend. It's hard for me as we all work together so I have to see them together everyday.
Before he used to smile at me and I would catch him looking at me and then I started PW and BWD and he's not spoken to me once, in fact I walked past him today and he turned his face the other way so he didn't have to look at me. I worry that he's not getting my PW or BWD or that I'm pushing him closer to her!
  

  
  
Welcome Stacie!  It's difficult dealing with a break-up at the office. Been there.
That's the reason I advise against dating at work.  It's nice when everything is
going good, but when it falls apart it's not so nice having to go to work knowing
he'll be there, and for you to have to see him with another woman makes it that
much worse.  And to top it off he's deliberately being a jerk about it too.  Maybe
you can get him back and maybe you have some bigger decisions to make.
  
  

 

princessgirl87 wrote:

It's been a week since we've seen each other or spoken to one another. 7 days straight of doing the technique...non stop. Im really dedicated on working on this and letting the universe take care of it.

The last of my tears was two mornings ago...but for another reason. I was rubbing my sides and it hit me that I don't love myself enough. Before that, last Sunday, I woke up from a happy dream I had about her, missing her, and crying more than two mornings ago...
But since then, I've been okay. This morning...all morning I was calm.
Right now, I feel okay, just a bit lonely at times.
I recall her telling me that once I think I'm over her (1 or 2 weeks' time), contact her as friends...
Part of me wants to, to see how she is, but the other part of me doesnt want to break No contact, so I'm kinda confused as to how to proceed?
(Though I saw something she posted I wanted to like on Facebook lol...I'll probably do that tomorrow...)
I will continue with my techniques for the rest of this week.
  

  
  
If you're doing NC then don't like her on FB.
  
  

 

Stacie83 wrote:

My story is hard to explain and long winded, short version is we had a baby girl but sadly she passed away when she was 10 days old, my ex didn't handle it well and had a break down n left me 10 months later which was 3 months before our wedding.
I don't think he's been a jerk he's just incredibly messed up and I'm a constant reminder to him of what happened. I have no doubt that he doesn't love me, I no he does but he doesn't love himself and won't get help. His new girl is controlling so he just does everything she says like a little dog!
Can I use PW to talk to him about our daughter and what happened?
  

  
  
I'm so sorry for your loss Stacie.  That's a very sad and complex situation.  
I suppose everybody in your workplace knows about the two of you being
a couple and that you were going to get married.  I think that you can do
PW if that will help you but there may be some other meditations that
might work better for your situation especially to help you with your grief.  
Check out Lanie's site she has various MP3s that might help.

If I were you I'd start a new thread if you want the other ladies here to
share their thoughts.  That might be more of a comfort for you.