Visualize him saying that he only has eyes for you.
Build up your confidence so that you aren't even worried about him looking at other girls because you already know that he wants you & the other girls don't have nothing on you ☺

Manifestation Maven wrote:

Hi Guys,

So I've been doing the technique for almost a year now and its safe to say me and my guy are in fact in love with each other. However, I've had a hard time dealing with resistance on both of our ends with me subconsciously sabotaging it with my personal insecurities and with him trying his best to stay in control. So I was wondering if someone could help me with phrasing, I want him to make me a priority in his life, I want absolute full commitment, I want him to act with integrity at all times and not even flirt with other women. ( I just find it to be very disrespectful)  I don't want to stop him from having fun but I just want instil keeping himself in check into his mind. I know its working, I just feel like I need to tweak a few things. Thanks in advance! 

If you want him to change you have to change, it's that simply.

The only thing you need to tweak is yourself. Work in shifting your own resistance. His resistance is a reflection of your resistance.
Do you believe you can have the relationship you want with him.
This whole process is about you taking mental ownership over the situation and guiding it to your desired place. 


What You Believe

The entire world is unconditionally demonstrating your beliefs. There is no such thing as unconscious beliefs because life is constantly and consistently manifesting your beliefs. Everyone who shows up in your day is reflecting your personal beliefs, about life, about you and about them. If you believe the world is a hostile place, you get hostile people. If you believe most people are kind, people will demonstrate kindness.

How You Feel
How you feel, at any given moment, sends out a vibratory energy that life immediately reflects back to you. This is the law of attraction. If you feel happy and light hearted, others will reflect that, and if you feel down and depressed, others will reflect that, as well. Shift your reality to  the reality you want to experience.

What You Expect
What you expect in any situation directly influences what you will experience. Have you ever found yourself saying, “I knew that would happen”? Have you considered that it was your knowing that actually made it happen? People cannot show up any better or different than you expect them to. Most of the time, we base our expectations on how we judge someone or how they have shown up in the past. What we fail to understand is that our expectations and judgements actually lock in those negative aspects of that person.

How You See Someone
How you see a person at any given moment calls forth that version of that person. This means if you are judging someone or focusing on the things that you do not like about that person, you will experience exactly that. If you want to know how you see someone, notice how they show up for you.

Oasiscalm wrote:

Manifestation Maven wrote:

Hi Guys,

So I've been doing the technique for almost a year now and its safe to say me and my guy are in fact in love with each other. However, I've had a hard time dealing with resistance on both of our ends with me subconsciously sabotaging it with my personal insecurities and with him trying his best to stay in control. So I was wondering if someone could help me with phrasing, I want him to make me a priority in his life, I want absolute full commitment, I want him to act with integrity at all times and not even flirt with other women. ( I just find it to be very disrespectful)  I don't want to stop him from having fun but I just want instil keeping himself in check into his mind. I know its working, I just feel like I need to tweak a few things. Thanks in advance! 

If you want him to change you have to change, it's that simply.

The only thing you need to tweak is yourself. Work in shifting your own resistance. His resistance is a reflection of your resistance.
Do you believe you can have the relationship you want with him.
This whole process is about you taking mental ownership over the situation and guiding it to your desired place.


What You Believe

The entire world is unconditionally demonstrating your beliefs. There is no such thing as unconscious beliefs because life is constantly and consistently manifesting your beliefs. Everyone who shows up in your day is reflecting your personal beliefs, about life, about you and about them. If you believe the world is a hostile place, you get hostile people. If you believe most people are kind, people will demonstrate kindness.

How You Feel
How you feel, at any given moment, sends out a vibratory energy that life immediately reflects back to you. This is the law of attraction. If you feel happy and light hearted, others will reflect that, and if you feel down and depressed, others will reflect that, as well. Shift your reality to the reality you want to experience.

What You Expect
What you expect in any situation directly influences what you will experience. Have you ever found yourself saying, “I knew that would happen”? Have you considered that it was your knowing that actually made it happen? People cannot show up any better or different than you expect them to. Most of the time, we base our expectations on how we judge someone or how they have shown up in the past. What we fail to understand is that our expectations and judgements actually lock in those negative aspects of that person.

How You See Someone
How you see a person at any given moment calls forth that version of that person. This means if you are judging someone or focusing on the things that you do not like about that person, you will experience exactly that. If you want to know how you see someone, notice how they show up for you.

You're absolutely right, thanks so much for this post! It's something I've noticed on a few different occasions when I've just let go completely after doing pw and deciding to be happy anyway but its almost like I have a hard time maintaining that state of mind