Lanie Stevens wrote:

I made John's testicles hurt for 6 months by visualizing it, and although I wouldn't do it again, I certainly don't regret it.  
 

Omg Lanie...how. LMAO

Blue wrote:

Lanie Stevens wrote:

I made John's testicles hurt for 6 months by visualizing it, and although I wouldn't do it again, I certainly don't regret it.  
 

Omg Lanie...how. LMAO

Using my technique!  As I said I don't regret it but he did go for MRI and X-rays because the pain was so intense.  I was honest with him and told him it was me but he didn't believe me.  LOL  John was the one who stalked me, hired a PI, rented cars I wouldn't recognize and hid behind bushes with odd sunglasses and hats on.  hahahahahaha  If he had treated me right he could have kept me but he didn't deserve me!

We have all done things that are funny and we look back and think WTH were we thinking?  A friend is going through a breakup and she is a singer (as is her man).  I went to see them perform last night and I had never met him before.  She has been agonizing over the breakup and when I met him I am thinking WTF was she thinking!!!!!  It's amazing that she was suffering over this guy who is so beneath her in every way.  

Anyway, pain is pain and I get it.  But usually we look back and realize we're better off without the guy when we find someone better.  :-)  When women get to the point where they wonder why their man is such a dumbass to leave them then I am doing my job empowering them!!!

dannie wrote:

This is a horrible thing to do. I have read some of your posts and you come off very mean and cruel. At times you give some really nice sound advice but others seem quite hurtful and that's one of the reasons why I will not post my story on here because of this. No matter if it is a repeat post, a help post or a post that sounds like the person is hysterical we are here to uplift and empower one another and if a post irks your nerves do not comment. Grown women shouldn't behave this way.

 

OK so some of you didn't understand her satire; it doesn't mean that we should start bashing her and saying how you think her other posts are mean & rude, etc....This post turned into a scene from Mean Girls quickly. Arent we supposed to encourage each other? A simple, hey that wasn't cool would have sufficed if you felt offended by it.
From what I gathered she's most likely referring to the people who come on here & ask for advice, but blatantly do the opposite of what was advised & then they wonder why they don't receive the results they desire, and they do it more than once.  she's not referring to those of us that get down here & there because we all have those moments, including her.

marilyng wrote:

lovelychica25 wrote:

 

OK so some of you didn't understand her satire; it doesn't mean that we should start bashing her and saying how you think her other posts are mean & rude, etc....This post turned into a scene from Mean Girls quickly. Arent we supposed to encourage each other? A simple, hey that wasn't cool would have sufficed if you felt offended by it.
From what I gathered she's most likely referring to the people who come on here & ask for advice, but blatantly do the opposite of what was advised & then they wonder why they don't receive the results they desire, and they do it more than once. she's not referring to those of us that get down here & there because we all have those moments, including her.

I think we all understood it, Satire by its very definition isn't a nice thing by the way!
and I think it was very unfair of you to say this turned into a scene from mean girls when I know from my perspective at least that I just don't think these types of threads do any good for the positivity on the forums!!
 

This is what I am referring to...

 dannie wrote:

This is a horrible thing to do. I have read some of your posts and you come off very mean and cruel


In my opinion It is a Mean Girl thing to do if someone uses this post to attack Indigo on her other posts that the person didn't like. She could have addressed this post specifically, instead of telling her that her other posts can be mean & cruel as well. If she had a problem with the tone of her other posts, she could have privately messaged her to politely let her know; instead of putting it on blast for others to join in & agree.

It wasnt the best post, but indigo explained why she posted it & explained that she was making light of the situation by making fun of herself as well. Besides, Indigo has posted numerous other postings with good advice; that it's silly to dwell on this one

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^ … and i was nearly shot in a shootout between the police and criminals when i dogged this guy i had a crush on, to a roadside market. No joke, it happened a few years ago when i was in uni, my guy friend and i laugh about it now - he was accompanying me at the time. Lol! Never again