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Thank you guys so much again for your support !
I got more movement last night with him. He worked late N texted me to ask me what time I break was at. I told him it was later On in the evening. A few hours pass. And I decide to take a 15 minute break so I text him but for some reason my texts were not going through as if he didn't have reception . ( this happens a lot in the hospital ) about 20 minutes later they went ended up going through. he texted me immediately saying " where are you I'm coming now" then I had to tell him unfortunately my break is over and I had to go back to work . He said " that sucks I only saw your text just now... I really wanted to see you". I texted him back that yes it did suck but we'll see each other another time. He then responded with " I guess " He texted me again a little bit later on during the night to ask me if I wanted a lift home but I told him it was OK but I would be taking the bus because I finished a little a lot earlier than he did .
I never thought I'd see the day where he was wanting to see me like this ..
before I started all this I really thought there was no hope, so for all of you who are thinking your man will never change his mind that is absolutely not true . This man has told me that he doesn't want a girlfriend anymore and that he will never want one again . He's told me before that he doesn't want us to hang out anymore because he doesn't want to give me any false hope . He's told me so many things I didn't want to hear and now things are changing so rapidly . i'm never going to give up and you shouldn't either
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Samibaby21 wrote:
Thank you guys so much again for your support !
I got more movement last night with him. He worked late N texted me to ask me what time I break was at. I told him it was later On in the evening. A few hours pass. And I decide to take a 15 minute break so I text him but for some reason my texts were not going through as if he didn't have reception . ( this happens a lot in the hospital ) about 20 minutes later they went ended up going through. he texted me immediately saying " where are you I'm coming now" then I had to tell him unfortunately my break is over and I had to go back to work . He said " that sucks I only saw your text just now... I really wanted to see you". I texted him back that yes it did suck but we'll see each other another time. He then responded with " I guess " He texted me again a little bit later on during the night to ask me if I wanted a lift home but I told him it was OK but I would be taking the bus because I finished a little a lot earlier than he did .
I never thought I'd see the day where he was wanting to see me like this ..
before I started all this I really thought there was no hope, so for all of you who are thinking your man will never change his mind that is absolutely not true . This man has told me that he doesn't want a girlfriend anymore and that he will never want one again . He's told me before that he doesn't want us to hang out anymore because he doesn't want to give me any false hope . He's told me so many things I didn't want to hear and now things are changing so rapidly . i'm never going to give up and you shouldn't either
Fab fab. Keep going your attitude and approach is spot on. Let it unfold organically.
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Samibaby21 wrote:
Thank you guys so much again for your support !
I got more movement last night with him. He worked late N texted me to ask me what time I break was at. I told him it was later On in the evening. A few hours pass. And I decide to take a 15 minute break so I text him but for some reason my texts were not going through as if he didn't have reception . ( this happens a lot in the hospital ) about 20 minutes later they went ended up going through. he texted me immediately saying " where are you I'm coming now" then I had to tell him unfortunately my break is over and I had to go back to work . He said " that sucks I only saw your text just now... I really wanted to see you". I texted him back that yes it did suck but we'll see each other another time. He then responded with " I guess " He texted me again a little bit later on during the night to ask me if I wanted a lift home but I told him it was OK but I would be taking the bus because I finished a little a lot earlier than he did .
I never thought I'd see the day where he was wanting to see me like this ..
before I started all this I really thought there was no hope, so for all of you who are thinking your man will never change his mind that is absolutely not true . This man has told me that he doesn't want a girlfriend anymore and that he will never want one again . He's told me before that he doesn't want us to hang out anymore because he doesn't want to give me any false hope . He's told me so many things I didn't want to hear and now things are changing so rapidly . i'm never going to give up and you shouldn't either
Ahh. So happy for you, Sami! Keep going Like Oasis said - your approach and the way you're handling everything is perfect xo
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Today was another good day this morning he invited me over to the restaurant where he works part time and he made me a amazing breakfast. When I was done eating I told him that he could come by for supper later if he wanted and he excepted. He came and I cooked he wouldn't stop raving about my food.I'm really happy. He just left here about 10 minutes ago I'm still on a high ❤️❤️
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Samibaby21 wrote:
Today was another good day this morning he invited me over to the restaurant where he works part time and he made me a amazing breakfast. When I was done eating I told him that he could come by for supper later if he wanted and he excepted. He came and I cooked he wouldn't stop raving about my food.I'm really happy. He just left here about 10 minutes ago I'm still on a high ❤️❤️
Amazing progress!
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Had dinner with my love tonight. He came to my place and I cooked. He was so flirty tonight and he kept staring at me in a way that was very different than how he usually would look at me. When he left he gave me a big hug since I'm leaving for vacation tomorrow. I was hoping for a kiss but He kept staring at me deep in my eyes ( I know this sounds corny lol) even as he left he kept turning around to look at me while he was leaving . It's as if he wanted to say something to me but he didn't. It was strange.
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Samibaby21 wrote:
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Had dinner with my love tonight. He came to my place and I cooked. He was so flirty tonight and he kept staring at me in a way that was very different than how he usually would look at me. When he left he gave me a big hug since I'm leaving for vacation tomorrow. I was hoping for a kiss but He kept staring at me deep in my eyes ( I know this sounds corny lol) even as he left he kept turning around to look at me while he was leaving . It's as if he wanted to say something to me but he didn't. It was strange.
I'm living for these updates, I love it. Girl, don't be afraid to kiss him first either! You got him right where you want him anyways Keep this up xo You're doing everything right!
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Samibaby21 wrote:
Today was another good day this morning he invited me over to the restaurant where he works part time and he made me a amazing breakfast. When I was done eating I told him that he could come by for supper later if he wanted and he excepted. He came and I cooked he wouldn't stop raving about my food.I'm really happy. He just left here about 10 minutes ago I'm still on a high ❤️❤️
Amazing progress!
Thanks!! ❤️