Indigo wrote:

  
  
I'm sorry you are having a bad day today.  I don't have anything new 
because I have said it all before - if you do not believe it works it is 
not going to.  It's a matter of mind over matter.  About a job, if you 
can't find a job, make a job.  You are intelligent, figure something out
that will produce income for you in the real world or online.  If there are
people out here making billions of dollars then there is money for you.  
As to your man, you must decide if there is a chance for you to get
back together and whether you want to continue to meditate on him.
But you must believe it will work.  Anyway, Lanie's got a freebie on
the PP book, that's the one I'm always telling you all to read.
If you don't already have it, now's your chance.
 
  
  

hey indigo thanks for your message yeah ive been so up and down lately when i met him 2 weeks ago after 5 months nc i really thought it would be the start of soemthing so special because the universe would make it happen ... but it didnt it was opposite as you know from my previous posts. well ive had a few days to really think and ive come to conclusion that i cnat give up ive invested 5 months of this rs, visualisation etc to turn my back on my hard work im going to see it through and believe. everyone is right the more i say he's stubborn he will be the more i say that we broke up 3x its not gonna work it created the drama im realising this now i just have to stay on track, its hard because the universe messes with you gives u glimmer of hope then nothing like some others ...but i willl carry on stay strong keep rs him telling me he wants to get back together etc because i relasied that since doing rs he broke up with the girl he was seein after me so maybe that is a sign im doing the rs well but i spose i was xpecting too much wanting him to come straight back .. but il keep going and hopefully post a success story SOON 
btw thanks for telling me bout the download i got it 
 

Girl you have to wait for more than a month, it takes time. If you think it's not working then it won't. The techniques do work, you need to have faith and let go.

donna89 wrote:

Blue wrote:

Girl you have to wait for more than a month, it takes time. If you think it's not working then it won't. The techniques do work, you need to have faith and let go.

 
I know lol I think when you do it and just keep getting obstacles it just feels like it's backfiring. I mean since me doing the rs imaginin him telling me he loves me etc it's made him go and ask out lots different girls... Surely it should be making him come to me not them that's why I feel so disheartened
  

  
  
Don't worry about what he is doing.  Read the books, do the meditations.  You are
trying to manifest him OR someone better.  Just keep at it, you don't have to do it
every day, you can do it every other day, but you must stick with it and keep on
doing it.  And please work on getting some patience because you do not seem to
have any.  Everyone wants everything right now, including me, but it just doesn't
work that way sometimes.  
  
  
 

jessieroro wrote:

Honestly maybe it's time you take a break from the technique and focus on you and just recharge. When you're doing LOA and resenting it the whole time it's like an endless cycle of perpetuating negativity. Also maybe it's best you don't know so much about his life for a bit.

I agree. I would add that you need to stop saying he's resisting you. You're just manifesting more resistance. Veronica talks about this extensively in her books and videos. For me, that was easier said then done so I started using   Lanie's Stop Obsessing meditation for at least a week straight and now just every few days. It has helped me tremendously with my patience and moving forward in life. I've even taken off quite a few days of PW or fallen asleep during it lately but I'm more confident then ever that it's working even if I haven't heard from him.