1 - thaqueenliz
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Does the Universe "reserve" you?
If you haven't read my backstory I met my POI the 24th of January and was immediately pretty smitten, however he's busy and blocking the connection he felt between us (by making himself as busy as possible), and I haven't heard from him in weeks.
I used to have tinder and bumble, FULL of matches, dates every night, sometimes twice a day, and although it was fun, none of them really stuck. And going out with friends I'd be approached and bought drinks all night. Literally the same night I met him I was with another guy, and all his guy friends were around me and we were having drinks, I was a bombshell! Then I met "Josh" and all that came to a halt. I still go out, but hardly get approached, I'll be looking around like "who's the lucky guy? Huh? No one? ok" haha. If I do have a drunk or lonely soul wander over and flirt, and give my number out, I never hear from them or it fizzles. I've tried getting tinder again, and get significantly less matches, and conversation never picks up. Same with the bumble app. Seriously talking about going from so many matches I couldn't message them all, to literally three matches! We'll message once or twice then it fizzles! Even today I tried to meet up with one and it fizzled out mid plan-making!
I've been feeling lonely especially not hearing from him, and tried reconnecting with some old flames, it's not the same, there's no interest on either ends especially with an ex flame that I had been head-over-heels for until after New Years, and now there's just nothing.
Does the universe ever put us on reserve for someone we're meant for? (especially people like me with so much ability to stray)? My psychic described "Josh" as a catalyst for me to go within myself and focus on me. I don't even know what that means, if I'll end up being with him.
This is just so weird and confusing and honestly? Lonely not having at least someone to distract me while I try these techniques on "Josh." I haven't heard from him in almost 3 weeks now. Thoughts?
- January
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Re: Does the Universe "reserve" you?
Really interesting question! I hope someone knows the answer! In her books and in response to an email, Lanie said you should go out and date, live your life, etc while knowing your guy is on his way back to you. Easier said then done of course... I've been very casually dating someone (not my norm at all) and it has helped me to stop obsessing over my ex the past two weeks. Finally! But I spent almost 6 weeks prior to that really working on myself. It was long overdue and it was hard. I couldn't even deal with thinking about dating, even as a distraction during that time. I had made so many positive changes in my life but I couldn't let go of when my POI would be coming back. Now I just have a complete sense of peace and calm that he will be coming.
Maybe instead of trying to date guys right now, you could date yourself for a while? Lanie has some really great meditations to help you work on yourself. Powerful You, Stop Obsessing, Skinny You, Body Enlightenment (my favorite for chakra balancing) are a few of my favorites. All these will help you raise your vibration. I woke up a few days ago, the day after doing the first Love Spell, and I felt like I was my old self from years ago. But better. I look worse than I have in years but I feel more confident and I have truly fallen in love with myself. I also have guys hitting on me all the time. With no encouragement.
I would try some personal work to raise your vibration. Are you doing the Love Spell?
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- thaqueenliz
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January wrote:
Really interesting question! I hope someone knows the answer! In her books and in response to an email, Lanie said you should go out and date, live your life, etc while knowing your guy is on his way back to you. Easier said then done of course... I've been very casually dating someone (not my norm at all) and it has helped me to stop obsessing over my ex the past two weeks. Finally! But I spent almost 6 weeks prior to that really working on myself. It was long overdue and it was hard. I couldn't even deal with thinking about dating, even as a distraction during that time. I had made so many positive changes in my life but I couldn't let go of when my POI would be coming back. Now I just have a complete sense of peace and calm that he will be coming.
Maybe instead of trying to date guys right now, you could date yourself for a while? Lanie has some really great meditations to help you work on yourself. Powerful You, Stop Obsessing, Skinny You, Body Enlightenment (my favorite for chakra balancing) are a few of my favorites. All these will help you raise your vibration. I woke up a few days ago, the day after doing the first Love Spell, and I felt like I was my old self from years ago. But better. I look worse than I have in years but I feel more confident and I have truly fallen in love with myself. I also have guys hitting on me all the time. With no encouragement.
I would try some personal work to raise your vibration. Are you doing the Love Spell?
I haven't done the love spell but I'm starting to see whispers of it here! is it from her newest book? I've considered buying it! I never thought of manifesting his resistance, I simply felt it and my psychic confirmed it, but I wonder what would happen if I tried to manifest him being open to my visualizations. I keep trying to casually date like i used to but seems it's not in the cards these days!
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Thread Starter- January
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The newest book describes the love spell. But you'll need to buy her guided meditation to do the actual spell. Both are well worth the money! I think they'll give you some calm over this.
Do try to stop saying he's blocking you! I've stopped thinking that way over the past week and I think it's helping! A few times during PW, I had visualized him with a big, heavy cloud full of my messages over his head, just waiting to burst as I called him to me.
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The newest book describes the love spell. But you'll need to buy her guided meditation to do the actual spell. Both are well worth the money! I think they'll give you some calm over this.
Do try to stop saying he's blocking you! I've stopped thinking that way over the past week and I think it's helping! A few times during PW, I had visualized him with a big, heavy cloud full of my messages over his head, just waiting to burst as I called him to me.
Just bought the book and I'm reading it now! And yes I do that too! Sometimes during the day I imagine him in bed or at his office and let's down his blocks and the messages go into his head! Like a laser kind of haha.
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The newest book describes the love spell. But you'll need to buy her guided meditation to do the actual spell. Both are well worth the money! I think they'll give you some calm over this.
Do try to stop saying he's blocking you! I've stopped thinking that way over the past week and I think it's helping! A few times during PW, I had visualized him with a big, heavy cloud full of my messages over his head, just waiting to burst as I called him to me.Just bought the book and I'm reading it now! And yes I do that too! Sometimes during the day I imagine him in bed or at his office and let's down his blocks and the messages go into his head! Like a laser kind of haha.
I was doing that too! Sometimes I also envisioned him hard and then his erection going down when he told me that he only gets hard for me. Ha! I've released a ton of anger and hurt the past week or so and I don't feel as vindictive these days or the need to visualize him as often. Some days I barely think of him until it's time to do PW. It's so refreshing. Let me know what you think of the book!
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Re: Does the Universe "reserve" you?
I don't think so.
I think a very common theme when reading success stories regarding LOA is that most people are grateful that whatever circumstances happened in their lives happened in the first place because that then led them to LOA and to start the journey which they plan to continue to use through their lives even when they manage to attract or fix whatever it was that brought them to LOA in the first place.
If you believe your psychic then that makes perfect sense, Josh is the catalyst for you to go within yourself and focus on you, if you had other guys interested in you right now you wouldn't do that because they could fill the void while you're waiting to see what the future holds for you and Josh.
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I don't think so.
I think a very common theme when reading success stories regarding LOA is that most people are grateful that whatever circumstances happened in their lives happened in the first place because that then led them to LOA and to start the journey which they plan to continue to use through their lives even when they manage to attract or fix whatever it was that brought them to LOA in the first place.
If you believe your psychic then that makes perfect sense, Josh is the catalyst for you to go within yourself and focus on you, if you had other guys interested in you right now you wouldn't do that because they could fill the void while you're waiting to see what the future holds for you and Josh.
Thanks! It is nice having so much time for myself. Back then I was so busy running around i had no time to meditate or even shower sometimes! Now I take detox baths every night, and can practice self care all Sunday!
As for him being a catalyst...I'm not sure it was an odd choice of word! I'd rather her have used...soulmate haha. Catalyst makes it sound like he appears for a purpose then goes away lol.
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Re: Does the Universe "reserve" you?
No the universe doesn't reserve you.
Your reality reflects your energy and your inner talk.
Think about your energy when your profile was full of matches. Were you more carefree and detached?
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