Great idea. I put off responding to this thread because it felt like admitting my fears would make them worse. But it needs to be done so: I am so afraid that my guy will not be true to himself and continue to listen to outside sources and his misplaced sense of responsibility and get even more serious with the girl he's seeing. I am even more afraid that I won't be able to forgive him for taking her on a big trip. I am so scared that I won't be able to get past the hurt and profound anger that's almost rage I feel right now about this trip. I am having a lot of problems swallowing lately and I think that it could be due to my throat chakra being blocked from holding in my anger. I'm worried I won't be able to release it. I am worried that I won't be able to forgive him if he's not back in my life when my dear loved one dies. Or how I will get through it without his support. Or if NC is driving him even further away. I am scared that I will be stuck in this limbo  even though I am trying to move forward and be happy. I am scared that the good and bad days are here to stay.  I am worried that it will be too late when I hear from him. 

Ironic post here, since just a few posts above I mentioned feeling free about everything. Well, I'm human and unfortunately I have emotions lol. I think I'm going to let this person go. I've been at this for over a year now (and this isn't to discourage anyone because again, this journey is personal to all of us and is about ourselves...)
but out of nowhere the 'I really miss him ' feeling is back , and I know that's not healthy. I know if I keep it up , I'll start doubting everything again ... only to start all over again & I just cannot lol.
I'm going to go ahead and let this one go for good.
I don't even know what I expect from sharing this but I hope you all keep it up , and of course have that person you want.  I always enjoy reading and trying to help out💛.

Also please don't let my doubting bring you down, just needed somewhere to vent..

Staceylouuu91x wrote:

When I wanted an ex of mine back I was always afraid he'd moved on and would be in love with someone else. Then there was the fear of failure and constantly questioning if I was doing it "right". Since then I've given up on the ex and have a new person in my life. He isn't my boyfriend, although using PW and BWD I've got him pretty sweet on me. I have fewer worries with him though because I feel as if I have nothing to lose when it comes to applying Lanie's techniques and the law of attraction in general. 
  

  
  
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I doubt cos - while I have had some successes with guys I was involved with at the time or more recently involved with previously in some way and had MET, but the one I want to do it on now (and there's two others I want to try it on at some stage) we haven't even met yet, only chatted online.  And he hasn't chatted for a few weeks.  So I don't know if the techniques will work in that situation but it will be fun to try! 

unicornsnrainbows wrote:

I haven't read all of the responses yet, so my apologies if this is redundant.  But my biggest concern at the moment is that PW is working more on me than on him!  Every day, I miss him more and more, to the point where I feel like I'm just going to explode if I don't see him or talk to him.  And this is exactly the sort of thing I'm having him say and feel in my meditations.  I am having the HARDEST time not reaching out to him right now, and I don't know what to do.  I'm having a harder time sleeping; my nights have become very disturbed.  It's like I've suddenly become consumed with thoughts of him, whereas just a month and a half ago I was totally disgusted with him.  I do the cord-cutting, so what's going on?  Is it possible that I'm just whipping myself?  Should I go back to hating him?  ugh.  I can't take it.

My suggestion is - if you're not already doing this - get Lanie's chord cutting meditation and do that.  And then perhaps do it after you have done Pussy Whip/BWD or at least the next day.

I think it might really help.