daisychain wrote:

On my second night of the second week spell tonight.  I find it hard to visualise us standing side by side and the ball of light in between but making sure I really feel the love for him.  Do you have to carve your names into the candle each time, as they obviously melt away each time you do it?
 
Things had picked up a little bit conversation wise between us over the months but since starting the spells I’ve noticed he’s more or less ignoring my messages.  Myself and a friend had been looking at his girlfriend’s facebook, over the weekend as my friend wanted to see what she looked like and we were basically being nosy! I know I shouldn’t have! This is the girl I found out he’d starting seeing a few weeks before I went back to see him.  For some reason I went back to have a look today and saw that she had made it completely private since last night, I know there is no way of knowing who has been looking at your profile so she can’t tell I had been.  I don't even know if she knows I exist!
 
So my observations since starting the spell have been that he’s seems to have backed off and is now not replying to my messages, I will back off and not send anymore and also his girlfriend has made her facebook even more private than it was before!
 
A result of me doing the spell
 
 

  
  
When you start with a new candle, yes, you do it again.  I can't say any more b/c my previous post
about it was removed.  As to your boyfriend issue, have you read Lanie's books?  It doesn't seem as
though you have.  When you get a chance, please get all of Lanie's books so that you aren't doing
things that don't seem to be working.
  
  

 

With the spell,you're laying it on him pretty thick as it is.  Him receiving messages from you on top of that could be scaring the crap out of him.

I'm one of those people that don't think that things are "instant". I don't think that just because a person has a high vibe and is emotionally ok before sending a message that the text will happen right then just as imagined.  I know some disagree but this is how I feel about it. He's getting sudden strong feelings about you,  then you start texting and you are PW - you are probably overdoing it.  The feelings are very strong. You have to keep in mind that you are communicating through PW and the spell already.  

As for the comparsion of strength between PW and the spell. I'm not sure.  This is my first time using a spell.

Avaelle wrote:

I'm one of those people that don't think that things are "instant". I don't think that just because a person has a high vibe and is emotionally ok before sending a message that the text will happen right then just as imagined.  I know some disagree but this is how I feel about it. He's getting sudden strong feelings about you,  then you start texting and you are PW - you are probably overdoing it.  The feelings are very strong. You have to keep in mind that you are communicating through PW and the spell already.  

As for the comparsion of strength between PW and the spell. I'm not sure.  This is my first time using a spell.

At the start of this journey I thought it would be instant but having been doing it a while i've come to see that it is a build up, at least for me anyway.

Thinking about it, I have been messaging more over the past 2/3 weeks since we had the really good conversation at the end of January and he was replying, when that happens it's easy to get carried away.  That along with the spell and PW is most likely hitting him really hard!  I need to back off with the messages and just go with the spell and PW occasionally in between when I feel like doing it.  I'm guilty in that I forget how communicating through PW etc also affects him, I need to keep this in mind!

daisychain wrote:

Thanks for replying Indigo.  I'm using the same candle as it was quite a big one so will carry on using that one again tonight.  I've been redoing the names each time as they obviously melt away!

I have read all the books but should probably read them all again and again.  When you say doing things that don't seem to be working, do you mean as in me looking at her facebook and messaging him?  The facebook I don't usually look at and won't be again, the messaging him is because we are still in contact and are on friendly terms, or so I thought until this past week or two when he's started ignoring my messages!  I will be backing off though contact wise and continue doing the love spells, PW etc and taking the time to get my energy levels and vibration back up and concentrate on myself.
  

  
  
I didn't mean anything in particular just that you should read Lanie's books, as I do often
and I have a husband.  There's things that Lanie tells that if we all did them, we probably
wouldn't be having any man problems.  Not that I personally have any, but I do things to
ensure that I maintain control and that I keep my man in check.