I read this and just started laughing. Not because it's funny, I know where your heart is but because I FEEL you. What really made me say...uh. okkk-is when people started asking why their POI is having nightmares now? Or sleeping terribly? It seems like some people have great results and others don't. Tbh. I think it has to do with WHY the break up occured. No one wants to say that though.I just like checking in for the stories now

ThisIsMyUsername wrote:

I understand "oh they're trying to resist. But can't they just resist without doing that? And if they felt they wanted you, why would they resist? Why wouldn't they be like "I like this person now", then boom. Why resist?

Also I've been doing pw (not a lot of bwd) on my girl for a year now and she's still on my Facebook friends list but obviously resisting... so what's the big deal?

It just doesn't seem logical to me. And why is my case so weird? Her staying on my friends list but still resisting even after a year?

It's beginning to sound a lot to me like they're just blocking. Nothing more, nothing less. Can someone shed some light on this for me please? Why is my case so off then? Thank you

Hi mrstkg, I just had to reply to you because I couldn't help but notice your comment about how seeing people asking why their POI are having nightmares etc. made you say "uh okkk". I am assuming you are talking about the thread I started where I mentioned I started PW again on my guy and that night he slept terribly and had nightmares when he usually does not. Now, please don't take this as an attack, but all I would like to say is that any question someone has on this forum is valid and is not stupid, silly or irrelevant. Everyone is going through their own journey and some people have burning questions they'd like to ask. I don't take this personally, as I believe my post was valid, but I am speaking for others who might be in the same situation and end up feeling bad thinking they had a stupid question. Anyway, I hope you can understand where I am coming from!

mrstkg wrote:

I read this and just started laughing. Not because it's funny, I know where your heart is but because I FEEL you. What really made me say...uh. okkk-is when people started asking why their POI is having nightmares now? Or sleeping terribly? It seems like some people have great results and others don't. Tbh. I think it has to do with WHY the break up occured. No one wants to say that though.I just like checking in for the stories now

ThisIsMyUsername wrote:

I understand "oh they're trying to resist. But can't they just resist without doing that? And if they felt they wanted you, why would they resist? Why wouldn't they be like "I like this person now", then boom. Why resist?

Also I've been doing pw (not a lot of bwd) on my girl for a year now and she's still on my Facebook friends list but obviously resisting... so what's the big deal?

It just doesn't seem logical to me. And why is my case so weird? Her staying on my friends list but still resisting even after a year?

It's beginning to sound a lot to me like they're just blocking. Nothing more, nothing less. Can someone shed some light on this for me please? Why is my case so off then? Thank you

jellyb wrote:

It's a fair question, as I sometimes wonder about the same thing TIMU is asking. It seems odd and counterintuitive that blocking someone could be an indicator of the PW feelings affecting them. Blocking might just mean blocking and it's impossible to know for sure, as even if someone were to ask, "Hey, why did you block so and so? they may not give the real answer.

On the other hand, like Blue said, t's very compelling to see how many people have been blocked out of the clear blue sky by their targets soon after they start PW, despite weeks or months of NC. It seems too frequent to be a coincidence.

Just out of curiosity, considering Indigo's comment, how many people here have been blocked and then went on to have their target contact them in a positive way?

When I was first blocked or unfriended, he contacted me a few weeks later. It was to hang out and we maintained having positive talks.

We last spoke this week and I'm still blocked or unfriended.

I'm kinda neutral on this...because my main person has never blocked me, but before Lanie's technique I had someone do this to get my attention, so I figured maybe the whole 'blocking because you're in denial' thing made sense.

All these people using the technique then getting blocked, is just coincidence? This type of thread seems to be common lately, it's interesting.

Hi eleven. I wasn't meaning that the topic was stupid at all. I was meaning that it was curious to me that the POI would have nightmares. And I've seen that stated more than once and once someone stated something about psychic attacks.I mean what if your FACE is what he sees in the nightmare? That would repel him not draw him. Make him think he's being warned. At least thats how i would take it.Thats how my brother took a nightmare he had about his ex wife. This is why I came to the conclusion I believe the "why" a break up occurred has a lot to do with the results. But we can't talk about that part.

eleven wrote:

Hi mrstkg, I just had to reply to you because I couldn't help but notice your comment about how seeing people asking why their POI are having nightmares etc. made you say "uh okkk". I am assuming you are talking about the thread I started where I mentioned I started PW again on my guy and that night he slept terribly and had nightmares when he usually does not. Now, please don't take this as an attack, but all I would like to say is that any question someone has on this forum is valid and is not stupid, silly or irrelevant. Everyone is going through their own journey and some people have burning questions they'd like to ask. I don't take this personally, as I believe my post was valid, but I am speaking for others who might be in the same situation and end up feeling bad thinking they had a stupid question. Anyway, I hope you can understand where I am coming from!

mrstkg wrote:

I read this and just started laughing. Not because it's funny, I know where your heart is but because I FEEL you. What really made me say...uh. okkk-is when people started asking why their POI is having nightmares now? Or sleeping terribly? It seems like some people have great results and others don't. Tbh. I think it has to do with WHY the break up occured. No one wants to say that though.I just like checking in for the stories now

ThisIsMyUsername wrote:

I understand "oh they're trying to resist. But can't they just resist without doing that? And if they felt they wanted you, why would they resist? Why wouldn't they be like "I like this person now", then boom. Why resist?

Also I've been doing pw (not a lot of bwd) on my girl for a year now and she's still on my Facebook friends list but obviously resisting... so what's the big deal?

It just doesn't seem logical to me. And why is my case so weird? Her staying on my friends list but still resisting even after a year?

It's beginning to sound a lot to me like they're just blocking. Nothing more, nothing less. Can someone shed some light on this for me please? Why is my case so off then? Thank you