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Okay, I need help! I read some posts but couldn't exactly find answer to my questions..I may have missed considering my foggy mind, please excuse me for that..I would appreciate if someone could re-direct or answer my questions! Thanks
So, how do you guys do this? Do y'all have any insights or experiences to share? Things you guys ran into that were good or bad?
How much time did it take for you guys? How often?
Do you visualize saying the other person saying stuff exactly what she says?
How do you visualize? Anything else you guys add?
For me it gets a little unbelievable and I feel like crying(I think happy, unbelievable-this-can-happen crying) when I imagine him saying that. --is it good, bad? And other times, I don't feel anything and it's like I don't remember how love feels (I know it sounds cheesy, but those are the best words I could come up with).. Also, I don't see a very clear image around my third eye when visualizing.
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I was under the understanding that it worked after my first attempt. As long as I was following the instructions, everything was fine. Anything else makes it harder than it truly is. If you're getting emotional, I think you're doing a great job connecting.
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moonlight412 wrote:
Okay, I need help! I read some posts but couldn't exactly find answer to my questions..I may have missed considering my foggy mind, please excuse me for that..I would appreciate if someone could re-direct or answer my questions! Thanks
So, how do you guys do this? Do y'all have any insights or experiences to share? Things you guys ran into that were good or bad?
How much time did it take for you guys? How often?
Do you visualize saying the other person saying stuff exactly what she says?
How do you visualize? Anything else you guys add?
For me it gets a little unbelievable and I feel like crying(I think happy, unbelievable-this-can-happen crying) when I imagine him saying that. --is it good, bad? And other times, I don't feel anything and it's like I don't remember how love feels (I know it sounds cheesy, but those are the best words I could come up with).. Also, I don't see a very clear image around my third eye when visualizing.
If you are asking about PW, you need to refer to Chapter 6. Re-read it.
Make a list of the steps. Main step - BELIEVE. Lie down and get into a
relaxed state. You may wish to take a nice hot shower/bath before doing
your meditations. Besides a list of the steps involved in PW, I made a list
of all the things I want him to say to me that has about 35 different things.
Everything from he loves the way I smell to he loves the way I decorate
my home's interior. I only have him say 2-3 comments at a time and I
use those same comments for a couple of days then move on to another
set of comments. Your visualizations will improve over time, don't fret
about that. What helped me at first was looking at his picture a couple
of minutes before starting my sessions. Do the meditations at a rate
that is comfortable for you, once a day would be my recommendation.
And finally, make sure you read all of Lanie's books. It's important.
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Thank you! I was using the meditation I bought from Lanie's website, so it has the words she says..maybe I will try without it and do meditation on my own for few days..
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moonlight412 wrote:
Thank you! I was using the meditation I bought from Lanie's website, so it has the words she says..maybe I will try without it and do meditation on my own for few days..
Oh ok. I used that one for the first time last night. I felt covered in happiness and couldn't stop grinning while I was using it. You can't go wrong if you're doing what she says.
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moonlight412 wrote:
Thank you! I was using the meditation I bought from Lanie's website, so it has the words she says..maybe I will try without it and do meditation on my own for few days..
You really need to read the book to have an understanding of the process.
And her other For Women Only series. You don't want to do the meditations
(not you specifically, but you in general)
and then when he comes around you are clueless about what you should be
doing and you start kissing his feet and what not and now you don't have
control and he has the upper-hand in the relationship. Save yourself a ton
of aggravation dealing with men and get the books, they are quick and easy
reads.
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thanks, ya I read the first book and that's how I learnt about the meditation..Will get other books as well!