Hi Ladies! So I've been absent from my thread for the past few days because I've been struggling to find my footing in other parts of my life. I've been really stressed and anxious about my finances, school and generally where I want to go. I'm realizing more and more that I'm the only thing that has gotten in my way and I had a moment of grieving over that. Thankfully, I'm mostly out of it and now I'm about to write down my general goal for each part of my life and what I want to achieve towards each of them in the month of March. As for my guy, I have used PW for the past few days but I've done it once a day in the morning and then used a heart energy meditation at night before bed. This week I think I'll focus on PW and BWD cause I could use some lol

Hey guys, so I've been having a bit of a hard time staying focused on RS because I've been focused on work and school but I have been doing it once a day for about half an hour. I'm trying pretty hard to stay focused on what I want and have funny enough been really tempted to call a psychic...I'm just trying to stay focused on the vision I have and stay devoted to it, even though I haven't yet seen the exact results I want in the last two months or so but I do feel that something significant will happen this month.

So I did PW today and managed my anxiety around the situation with EFT tapping on the fear of the unknown on YouTube and it helped a lot. It's funny cause when you're close to someone you really have a telepathic link and lately I've been paranoid of him seeing other people but then I let go of the fear and ask my guides if he is and I always feel he isn't. He just needs some time to get his stuff together since this relationship will require quite a bit of work. So overall I'm feeling pretty good, I've even begun to pray for the happiness of someone who was meddling and I'm already feeling her energy drifting away from the situation.

Manifestation Maven wrote:

I have a bit of a dillema, so I'm still very much in love with my guy but we are on a break and there isn't commitment here right now. I met someone who truthfully I don't like in a romantic way but he is a lot of fun and knows a lot of people ( I don't have many friends around here) so I feel like I'd like to date him for fun and ya girl hasn't been laid in over six months yikes... I know detachment from the outcome is a big part of manifesting but would sleeping with someone else be too far? I do want my guy back but I've realized I've been so focused on just wanting him that I haven't focused enough on the changes I want to see in him and quite frankly if it's more of the same then I'm not interested. I just don't know if using BWD on this new dude and developing a dating relationship will mess up my manifestation... What do you guys think?

From what I've read on these boards some people have done PW and BWD on two people and gotten results for both.   Personally I am doing PW and BWD on the guy who I want to make changes but don't see them coming anytime soon so in the interim I'm casually dating a  wonderful nice guy who  wants to take me out.  He has all of the qualities I'm looking for.  It doesn't change me stop wanting my other POI to come around and I am still doing PW and BWD on the first POI only.  ( I don't feel the need to do it in the guy I'm dating casually because He already treats me so well)

So coming from personal experience , At the very least this new person you date could possess all of the amazing qualities you wanted in the previous POI (which sometimes happens when you change your vibration - you attract men who have more of the good qualities) so you may find yourself falling for someone new and ultimately no longer care about the other guy.  Either way it's all about you and what makes you happy so if this new person treats you with love and kindness I see no reason not to entertain them.