Hey Kelly.

In regards to question # 3,  you should be all done at that time and not cast another spell.  I'm sure others will be along soon with more insight.

It is recommended that you don't cast another spell after you've completed the first schedule.  It could scare the POI.

But in Lanie's book she says if there's nothing after two weeks, we can begin the spell again. I actually just started Round 2. I'll stop after this even if nothing happens, I'll just continue the PW and BWD.

kellykelly wrote:

1)Is it still effective if i do the spell with my eyes open looking at his picture? i have difficulty visualising his face with my eyes closed, believe it or not!

​2)what purpose does the candle serve? are we suppose to focus on the candle while doing the spell?

3)must we start with a new candle when the 2 weeks are up?

​4)the actual meditation is rather short. as i take a long time to visualise, the meditation ends when i am just about to stabalise my visualisation. is it ok if i lengthen it?

Thanks.

If you have a hard time getting into a relaxed state just start relaxing BEFORE you begin the meditation.  You will get used to getting relaxed faster as you practice.  You can continue using the same candle.  The purpose of anything during a spell or even my technique is to entrain your brain and create a ritual.  Remember, I state in my book that when I go to my place of meditation I immediately begin to go into the alpha state?  Ritual and programming.  :-)
 

are we suppose to close our eyes or focus on the candle in front?

​i place the candle and the picture in front of me, is this the correct way?