DCS82 wrote:

Perfect! Then, think of that as a REAL event. Because, really...it is. Go through the rest of the day and keep that feeling going. I think of my visualizations as dates with my lady. I change them up and plan them in advance. It's a lot of fun and really drives home that point of thinking from the point of the wish fulfilled. You have it now, just tap into that feeling and hold on to it. All time, past/present/future exists simultaneously*. The future you want exists now and when you do your visualizations, you are "seeing" a portion of that. Just use that and have fun with it.

*Trust me, I'm a scientist.

 

Well, elite scientist I think would be more accurate.    One day we will say "wow, he was on our forum!"  ;-)

pectinase wrote:

New here – just want to say I've manifested SO many amazing things over the years after reading about LOA techniques (thanks Neville!). I bought Lanie's books a while ago but have only just got around to reading them yesterday prompted by stumbling across this forum – after one day of trying them out I love the techniques because they makes me feel powerful and happy! Can't wait to dig in more.

Backstory: I'm in the process of manifesting a full romantic relationship – we fell out 2 years ago, but I really got my teeth into LOA and visualisation and we are now very close friends again, and he texts me every single day. We've even been on vacation numerous times in one year together, which seemed utterly IMPOSSIBLE at the time of falling out. However, he's very emotionally closed and terrified of commitment, so I am convinced this powerful Lanie technique will be the one to turn him into putty in my hands, and cement our love together. We aren't having sex or romantically involved, but I think we both are very aware that there's something special between us.

I know once we're together in a 'proper' relationship it will make us BOTH so happy – I feel like I'm doing this for the two of us, rather than just my selfish desires. It's just he's too much of a dumb man to ever do anything about it.

Love to you all, can't wait to read more of everyone's stories and successes, ladies!

Welcome to the forum!  Have no doubt that the "technique" will work on him because it is focused, purposeful manifesting.  xoxoxoxo

I tried to do it at lunch but i think i felt rushed . I am of course going to do it at night. I really want him to come by before he leaves. 

So I realiZe when I think of the relationship I worry about what other people will think. I worry that they won't like me. I know a lot of his friends didn't like how I was before. I want time to see me in a lot better light I want to manifest better friendships with them. So how do I get rid of the resistance and worry there? It seems I worry about losing myself in the relationship again, his friends and wanting them to like me,

I do want to note last Tuesday we saw each other and i mentioned to him how i was not happy i was not going to this thing. I mentioned i know what happens on these things and he told me he is rooming with a mutual guy friend and this girls parents are going to be there too. Idk it seemed like the way he was saying it (hard to type out) was trying to be reassuring? I am not sure., but that was the same night he kept calling me ex and saying we probably should stop sleeping together but he does not want to idk I mean he just like two weeks ago said what i did was girlfriend material and that we have a lot to talk about it but do we? no no we dont...ok ok i guess my frustration is getting to me. Is there a non punishable way i can let my anger out about this cabin trip which i hope is cancelled or he cant go to or that noone can go to or that i hope this is the worst cabin trip for anyone in the history of the planet?? and i just want to maintain him being loving i am tired of the switches...because Dec seemed so close i was not using the technique then in fact i dont know what i was doing...maybe just focusing on having fun with him. i m ranting...can i just journal this stuff to maybe try to get it out?