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Help Please :)
Hi guys. A little advice please 
So remember I had an ex before i was trying to attract. We broke up last year June, so from that day on I started doing PW and BWD (sometimes) on him but then I completely moved on and started to accept what happened. I started dating last December I met this new guy, i really like him and I'm doing PW on him. But everytime I do PW with this new guy, I always make sure to include my ex in the process after. Nothing really dramatic, just envisioned hugging him and telling me he misses me but thats it. I make sure I feel the way i would feel if he's hugging me right now.
So today, I contacted him to ask something important. Didn't expect the conversation would be long because the last time we talked it was a short one, 4-5 messages. Today, He flirted! And invited me to go with him together to his business trip this coming April. He was very persistent. Should I go with him? what do you think should I do? I wanted to go, I wanted to let him see that I'm completely okay without him already but I don't want to make him think that I'm still head over heals with him if I go with him on that trip. Thanks Ladies! ❤
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Re: Help Please :)
Do you have to make a decision right away.
Can you perhaps tell him you need a week or two to process the invite and consider whether it's something you want?
Tell him you're blindsided by his invite and need just a little bit of time to give it some good thought.
See how he responds with that.
Just a thought. When at a crossroads, always go with your gut.
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Re: Help Please :)
Jen wrote:
Do you have to make a decision right away.
Can you perhaps tell him you need a week or two to process the invite and consider whether it's something you want?
Tell him you're blindsided by his invite and need just a little bit of time to give it some good thought.
See how he responds with that.
Just a thought. When at a crossroads, always go with your gut.
The trip is scheduled this April 7 and ticket is expensive so I'm thinking twice. Maybe if he will pay for the fare I guess
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Thread Starter- Queenbee
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Are you truly completely over him?
I think so. All I know is I'm okay whether he'll be back or not I am happy and relax unlike before when we were together. It was so negative on my side.
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That's a strong sign that your visualisations and the techniques work! Follow your heart, I am sure you feel good about this.
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Yes. I decided I won't go with him I think it's not yet the time for us to see each other again I'll continue the PW on him.
Is it weird that I do the technique on him and not dwell on the outcome? I just do it to make me feel good about myself that he misses me even if I'm just visualizing it. I always feel the emotions during PW session. Maybe that's why I manifested the trip.
Thank you again loves! ❤
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