Avaelle wrote:

When I saw the subject of this thread, I knew that the starter of it was you. :-( Most of the posts I’ve seen from you have consisted of you speaking on how the techniques aren’t working for you, how they work for everyone else and how it is taking too long to see results. You don’t seem to realize it but LOA is giving you exactly what you’ve been focusing on.
 

I absolutely love your positive outlook on the world 😊
You are definately one of the people in here who keeps my head up high 👌

Have you been talking to him? He's not all that concerned about giving you your stuff, that's an excuse to reach out, unless it's just super important items. 

Issykitten wrote:

Nothing has worked Its been almost 6 months since he left and nothing with loa, pw ,rs ..NOTHING has worked. He asked for my address to send my things back but that's it. he still seems mad at me when he was the one who hurt me . So I think I'll just leave the form since this doesn't work for me most likely because we're long distance or because he's in love with the girl he's with. I wish this would have worked but oh well. Thanks for everyone who tired to help me but It doesn't work 100 % . Goodbye

Same thing happened to me. But the items were things I could live without. He just wanted to see me. He had been crying playing love songs when I got there too. This guy is LD. Like he really cares that much to give her her things. (Unless it's super important stuff) he might just be breaking the ice. But then I think I recall her saying past post she asked for her stuff.

Avaelle wrote:

mrstkg wrote:

Have you been talking to him? He's not all that concerned about giving you your stuff, that's an excuse to reach out, unless it's just super important items.

Issykitten wrote:

Nothing has worked Its been almost 6 months since he left and nothing with loa, pw ,rs ..NOTHING has worked. He asked for my address to send my things back but that's it. he still seems mad at me when he was the one who hurt me . So I think I'll just leave the form since this doesn't work for me most likely because we're long distance or because he's in love with the girl he's with. I wish this would have worked but oh well. Thanks for everyone who tired to help me but It doesn't work 100 % . Goodbye

Now that you mention this, one of my ex-boyfriend's did a similar act. Once I had moved past the pain from the breakup and had actually started to happily date other guys he called me about returning my things to me.  This was after almost a year. It ended up being a conversation starter for him and he was actually trying to hang out with me. I never received the things back.

True! A lot of you ladies have more space and opportunity then they realize. I'm just waiting on that one lil crack in the door of communication. Lol. Just ONE and I got this.

Avaelle wrote:

In either event, it's a doorway. Him mailing things or bringing them by doesn't have to be seen as ugly.

Issykitten wrote:

*update* today at work my coworker asked about my love and then said she had looked at his fb and hes still with her . This is a sign that it isn't working

How do you know he ain't thinking about you too?
My girl is still with her new guy too. But I truly desire her, so I'm doing everything in my power to get her back.
Essential to LoA is faith. If you think it won't work - well, then I can tell you 100% it won't work.
Ask - believe- receive.