I am a believer in LOA but things aren't going well.  I lost my house and had to move.  I lost a lot of money with the house because I was supposed to buy it.  Now I am moving to a house that I don't want and it's smaller.  One of my POI is back on a dating site after almost exactly a year ago, saying he couldn't be in an open relationship and he could never speak to me again, even as friends.  He also got married but his now wife is being stationed in Spain for 2 years but I guess he is staying here.  But there he is, on the dating site, in an open relationship.  He could contact me on Facebook if he wanted to but I guess he just wants hookups.  Another POI isn't dating anyone, not since he moved here end of September because he said that he had me but he changed his mind after I visited him before he moved here and the relationship was awkward and he blames me for something which isn't my fault.  I love people unconditionally and I have been talking to and dating others but nothing goes anywhere.  I love unconditionally.  I am just feeling hopeless because I lost my beautiful house and 45k, just took a job that I don't really want so that I can have money and I am feeling alone. I read lots of things and I have seen small things but I didn't want to move, yet here I am.  I believed that I would not.  And neither of my POIs will talk to me.  They both cut off contact.  The second one did almost 4 months ago.  I just don't know what to do.  I try to release and the first POI did come back on the dating site after I removed stuff from my phone about him. I actually had given up but up he pops on the dating site.  I hate telling this story but I don't have any close friends that I can share with. I love this forum and it has always helped me but I am at a loss right now.