Was hoping to hear from someone about this but decided it would be better to just give love to myself and try to give myself some positivity! So I was feeling pretty down yesterday after the catch up wasn't great. I didn't go into work and just spent the day trying to work my way up the emotional scale. I slept until the afternoon, then called my mum and sister in-law who made me feel better. I read books, watched youtube videos, had a relaxing bath and watched some of my favorite TV shows. One of the websites I visited was Must Spark Joy, I believe this website has been spoken about before but this is the first time I visited the site and it immediately raised my vibe, I encourage you all to read the Manifest your ex back articles they are free and helped me so much. I'd like to share some nuggets of wisdom from the article that really made me feel a lot better.
The Law of Mentalism: This law states that “ALL IS MIND and the universe is mental.”
This mind is universal, infinite, unknowable, and undefinable. This means you are all present, all powerful, all knowing, and limitless! This means that your mind is the source of everything that you see around you; the one that is entirely responsible for yourself, your whole being, all your experiences, all that you own, the quality of your relationships, and all that await you. 
​How can you apply this law to manifest your ex back?
You can use the Law of Mentalism to manifest your dream relationship with your ex by always reminding yourself that whatever you think will LITERALLY translate into your reality.If you think that your relationship with your ex is over, then it is over.
If you keep thinking and telling others that that your ex blocked you on social media, then they will continue to block you on social media.
If you think that your ex has found someone else, then they will eventually find someone else.
If you think you’re struggling to manifest them back, then you will always be struggling to get them back.
If you think that your ex hates you, then they will continue to hate you.
If you think your ex will never contact you again, they will never contact you again.
If you think your ex doesn’t love you anymore and has already moved on, you will get exactly that!

If you’ve been entertaining all these negative self talk about your ex, it’s time to pause and re-program your mind to think only of what you want to happen in your reality.  
Now it’s your turn to create scenarios in your mind that you want to LITERALLY translate into reality. Use the Law of Mentalism to your advantage. Always create in your mind the idea that you are back with your ex , and that you are in a brand new relationship with them. Train your mind to focus only on all the amazing possibilities between you and your ex. Do not entertain any negative thoughts. There is nothing negative to feel, and no reason to feel it. Always focus on the good, beautiful, and wonderful things only.

You can also use the Law of Mentalism to create the best version of your ex. Yes, this is possible, and doing this is not against their will because you are not forcing them to change — you are merely consciously applying the Law of Mentalism. Remember that whether you choose to do this or not, the Law of Mentalism will still execute whatever you focus on in your mind. What you focus on will grow, and what you ignore will disappear. So, take inventory of what you like and don’t like about your ex. If there are qualities that you wish they would change, start forgetting that they possess these qualities and start thinking that they possess the qualities that you love.
relax, stay calm, and know that you can revise this whole situation. The Law of Mentalism will make sure that you are 100% in control. You just need to apply the law everyday. 
 

unicornsnrainbows wrote:

I think it's all there above, in Vera's words.  Don't pay any attention to what he is saying.  Keep your eye on the goalpost.  Believe that the PW is working, keep at it, and let him break past his walls in his own time.  This is moving in the right direction, he still wants you in his life!

​Thank you lovely, just felt like I was talking to myself! haha I always appreciate a little encouragement and this made me smile. Enjoying the journey and just playing in my imagination and focusing less on the current reality
 

unicornsnrainbows wrote:

^Thank you, Blissful.  I think I do need to let go.  I'm weary with giving my love and attention to someone who is not appreciating me.  It honestly felt SO GOOD and it was such a relief when I saw him again, and I really felt the love flowing between us, but he's pushed me away so many times, and now he's back to it...resisting his feelings and shutting off his heart.  It's just exhausting.  I've never met anyone I've felt so close to or had so much passion with (and I've been around the block a few hundred times!), but I've also not ever met anyone so resistant to love.  I deserve to be not only desired, but cherished and treasured.  If he can't do that, then he's not the man for me.

I hear you and totally understand the feeling of being unappreciated by your guy. I think when it comes down to it we need to get to a place where we can just shrug these things off and ignore them. Much easier said then done but it all comes back to unconditional love. I think filling yourself up with as much love as you can and letting little things go is the best way forward. I still believe he will come around eventually as these techniques do work, it will just be up to you if you let him back into your life or not.