Well this certainly seems to the running theme for a lot of us. A lot of "other" men saying and doing what we are waiting for our REAL desire to do and say. I think the POI is feeling it too! Just maybe it's because we're still more attached to them

Antonios Wife wrote:

i posted a couple days ago about my dreams coming true just not with me . Well I have been doing EFT and men are coming from everywhere . I've even decided to possibly try dating a new guy . I've been away from my ex almost 4 months now and I've been trying to bring him back by doing PW BWD and now EFT . Today I get some flirty texted from on of my ex from years ago Saying the exact same words I was hoping I would hear from Antonio I even scripted the exact words I am sorry for any negativity that I brought into your life . I replied back all is forgiven I hold no grudges . Then he went on to say how good I looked . Lately I've been getting lots of compliments because I've lost a lot of weight and I've been keeping positive pretty much faking it until I make it . If I am reaching all these people I am wondering if it's hitting my ex at all he is the intended target . If it's I know he's got to be in a mess ..

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mrstkg wrote:

Well this certainly seems to the running theme for a lot of us. A lot of "other" men saying and doing what we are waiting for our REAL desire to do and say. I think the POI is feeling it too! Just maybe it's because we're still more attached to them

Antonios Wife wrote:

i posted a couple days ago about my dreams coming true just not with me . Well I have been doing EFT and men are coming from everywhere . I've even decided to possibly try dating a new guy . I've been away from my ex almost 4 months now and I've been trying to bring him back by doing PW BWD and now EFT . Today I get some flirty texted from on of my ex from years ago Saying the exact same words I was hoping I would hear from Antonio I even scripted the exact words I am sorry for any negativity that I brought into your life . I replied back all is forgiven I hold no grudges . Then he went on to say how good I looked . Lately I've been getting lots of compliments because I've lost a lot of weight and I've been keeping positive pretty much faking it until I make it . If I am reaching all these people I am wondering if it's hitting my ex at all he is the intended target . If it's I know he's got to be in a mess ..

Don't let that discourage you that your POI is not telling you what you want to hear. He is at least thinking it! :-)
 

Thanks Lanie. You're always encouraging. I have my moments where I just want to...well. you know. But then I get a spark.

Lanie Stevens wrote:

mrstkg wrote:

Well this certainly seems to the running theme for a lot of us. A lot of "other" men saying and doing what we are waiting for our REAL desire to do and say. I think the POI is feeling it too! Just maybe it's because we're still more attached to them

Antonios Wife wrote:

i posted a couple days ago about my dreams coming true just not with me . Well I have been doing EFT and men are coming from everywhere . I've even decided to possibly try dating a new guy . I've been away from my ex almost 4 months now and I've been trying to bring him back by doing PW BWD and now EFT . Today I get some flirty texted from on of my ex from years ago Saying the exact same words I was hoping I would hear from Antonio I even scripted the exact words I am sorry for any negativity that I brought into your life . I replied back all is forgiven I hold no grudges . Then he went on to say how good I looked . Lately I've been getting lots of compliments because I've lost a lot of weight and I've been keeping positive pretty much faking it until I make it . If I am reaching all these people I am wondering if it's hitting my ex at all he is the intended target . If it's I know he's got to be in a mess ..

Don't let that discourage you that your POI is not telling you what you want to hear. He is at least thinking it! :-)